First time!

Read articles on 'first time' on everything - your first time kiss, first time love, first time making out, first time buying condom, first time sex, first time oral sex/anal sex or even first time breaking-up! 

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First time sex: what makes it good?

When it comes to enjoying sex the first time, being in a loving, committed relationship makes a world of difference, say researchers.

My awkward first time gay sex

Ruchit realised he was gay when he was in college and he feels that his first sexual experience was extremely awkward because he was still confused about his sexual orientation back then. He shares his story with Love Matters.

My friend couldn't believe I had sex!

“When we were 16, my friends and I agreed that staying a virgin till you were married to some stranger was the most anti-woman idea ever,” says Amrita. But when she told them she had actually lost her virginity, she received a surprise reaction.

Masturbating him: do's and don'ts

Masturbating your partner can be a great way to spice up your sex life. You could use it as foreplay, but you can also make him have a complete orgasm with a hand-job. Wondering how you can pleasure him with your handywork? Here are some do’s and don’ts.

Masturbating her: do's and don'ts

Masturbating your partner or fingering her is a great way to make love. Who says you need vaginal intercourse to make her climax? Manual stimulation can be a great way to bring your partner to ecstasy. Wondering how? Here are our do’s and don’ts.

First time sex: what are your tips Auntyji?

Auntyji, I am 18 and all set to lose my virginity to my boyfriend very soon. Is there anything I should definitely take care of apart from condoms? Swati, Noida

The most incredible first-time sex story

“I’ve never been with a man before,” she whispered. “It’s because I’m a lesbian.”

Will I break her hymen if I finger her?

Q: My girlfriend wants me to finger her vagina – will it break her hymen? She also wants me to insert it deep inside. Is there any way I can prevent her hymen from breaking? Ravi, Ahmedabad.

Will my foreskin hurt when I first have sex?

Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.

How I discovered masturbation

I first found out about sex when I was 13. It was a series of things that were happening all at the same time. That year, we saw a woman nude on screen for the first time and discovered a favourite pastime: masturbation.

'I didn't know girls could do it'

“I discovered masturbation by accident,” says Bangalore-based Marion. Till the age of 16 she didn’t know what she was doing. “I mean I knew what ‘masturbation’ meant when boys did it, I didn’t think girls could do it.”

My gross first kiss: his tongue was frantic!

“My first kiss was the most horrible one,” says Archana. “I'd been fantasizing about this for months and everything was perfect till he kissed me.”