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Inter-caste marriages: Top Five Facts

Inter-caste marriages are rising in number and that makes it important to have more knowledge and information about what they actually entail. Read on to find out crucial facts about inter-caste marriages.
  1. What is inter-caste marriage?
    Inter-caste marriage is when the couple belong to the same religion but to different sects and communities. Today, with young men and women coming in closer contact, especially in urban cities, inter-caste marriages are on the rise. The Supreme Court of India too has stated that inter-caste marriages are in 'national interest' and help to unify the country. 
  2. How it began
    When you begin to doubt yourself in an inter-caste union, remind yourself why the caste system was established in the first place – to classify people according to their occupations, each with its own rules and customs. With this specialisation of society, each member knew their role. Today however, few people stick to their caste-driven professions and therefore, the caste system is out-dated. 
  3. Subtle differences
    Marrying someone from a different caste can throw up several differences and issues between you. For instance, he may be a meat-lover while she is a staunch vegetarian. These may seem like minor differences but they can develop into major obstacles later on, so it's best if the two of you sit down together and discuss how it will be dealt with. 
  4. Opposition
    Additionally, be prepared for your parents and those close to you to raise questions or oppose your decisions. Anticipate what their concerns could be and try to talk with them to sort it out. Don't lose your temper and convince them calmly of why this decision is the right one and that every marriage needs compromise and adjustment from both sides. Seek help from someone in the family you trust and who you feel will back you up. 
  5. Benefits
    It may seem rather much to talk about money when it comes to something as personal as marriage, but in order to encourage marriages between couples of two different castes, the governments of various states offer employment and monetary incentives. The West Bengal state government, for instance, offers inter-caste couples an incentive of Rs 50,000. In Tamil Nadu, inter-caste married couples are offered government jobs. 


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Yes, I do support inter caste system coz it when it comes to marriage every human has a right to his or her partner, and if its inter caste there is no harm coz we learn to know the different community and can solve the problem of discrimination against castes. Create a good relationship between communities as a plus point where as what exactly we want. When it comes to Vegetarian and Non Vegetarian it depend upon the couple how they take it but families do matter. But at the end I will say there is no harm in inter caste yet lot of hurdles. Government should come up with such plans to support inter caste.
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Madhav bete abhi wo 17 saal ki hain, ye shadi gairkanuni hogi, shadi karne ke liye kanuni taur par ladki umra 18 aur ladke ki 21 hona bahut jaruri hai. Ye padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/im-21-in-love-with-a-teenager Aur waise bhi jis rishte mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- ismein samasya ho sakti hai. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ravindra Kumar Verma
Thu, 07/07/2022 - 21:57
Jaise Ham Sabhi Jante Hain Ki aajkal log Shaadi Vivah ke mamle mein jaati Dharm ko Lekar jyada hi Chalte Hain vah yah Nahin Dekhte ki vah kis jaati Dharm ke hokar Kis Tarah ka Karya kar rahe hain parantu Jab Vivah Ki Baat Aati Hai To vah antarjatiy Vivah ko Lekar Iske samksh rukavat bante Hain Jis Tarah vah Apne Karya ko Lekar Jaate aur Dharm Ko Nahin dekhte hain theek Usi Tarah unhen Vivah Jaise mamle ko Lekar bhi Aisa Nahin sochana chahie
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Rahul yadav
Sun, 08/28/2022 - 21:24
हेलो दोस्तो मेरा नाम राहुल यादव है मैं इंटरकास्ट लव मैरिज किया हूं/घर वालो के खिलाफ जाकर लेकिन मेरे घर के लोग नई मान रहे है हम दोनो को एक्सेप्ट नही कर रहे क्या ऐसा होता आप लोग बताओ
राहुल बेटा इसमें समस्या तो होती है। इसे पढ़िए: https://lovematters.in/en/news/inter-caste-marriages-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/en/marriage/eloping-top-five-facts यदि इस मुद्दे पर आप और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे डिस्कशन बोर्ड, " जस्ट पूछो" में ज़रूर शामिल हों. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Mai ak ladke se bahut pyaar karti hu lekin meri cast alag hai or uski mujhse nichi hai or mere ghar vale bilkul bhi nhi chahte mai usse shadi karu ghar mai sab bolte hai vo mere layak nhi hai or mujhe lagta hai mai uske sath khus reh sakti hu mujhe or usko mile 2 saal ho gaye hai or next year shadi bhi karna chahte hai court merrige ab aap batayiye kya karna mai koi galt fhesla to nhi le rahi hu

यदि आप इस मुद्दे पर हमसे और गहरी चर्चा में जुड़ना चाहते हैं या अपनी समस्या हमसे शेयर करना चाहते हैं, तो हमारे फेसबुक और इंस्टाग्राम के इन्बॉक्स में अपनी समस्या लिखें ताकि हम आपको सही सलाह दे सकें- https://www.facebook.com/lovematters.india?mibextid=LQQJ4d https://instagram.com/lovemattersindia?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
 

Ansh kumar sahu
Sun, 12/10/2023 - 20:01
Agar apne hi cast ki ho aur ghar wale nahi maan rahe hai to hame is yojna ka labh prapt ho sakta hai nahi .. Suggestions and help please

hi ansh,

 

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