Right Beta - yes understandable. But beta you would also know that this is a bit of a myth a misnomer even - if I may say so - that every girl MUST bleed in her ""first night"". The Hymen is a very breakable feature you know. maybe you can begin talking to your fiance about these issues and plant information of "virginity" and hymen in his mind already. having such expectations is really out dated , don't you agree? Do read up on this issue. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum