If you are planning to stay friends in hope of a yes someday, it would be a good idea to keep your distance. A no means a no. Staying friends with someone while trying to make them feel guilty for not saying yes, is neither smart nor right. If someone doesn’t want to be with us, we can’t force them, can we? They have to be decide for themselves if they wanna be with you. We can’t make them say yes just because we love them, right? Be calm and respect her decision. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum