Unplanned pregnancy
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अनचाहा गर्भधारण - अब क्या करें?

यदि आप अनचाहे गर्भवती हो जाती हैं तो आपको इस बात का फैसला करना होगा कि क्या करें। आपके सामने दो विकल्प मौजूद होते हैं: गर्भपात या बच्चे को जन्म देना।

आप जो भी फैसला करें, सोच-समझ कर करें। आपकी सहायता के लिए यहां कुछ सुझाव दिए जा रहे हैं।

सुझाव 1
अपने किसी विश्वासपात्र से इस बारे में बात करें। खासकर, किसी ऐसे वयस्क से, जो आपको सलाह और सहयोग दे सके, जैसे कि आपकी मां, मौसी, चाची या कोई मित्र।

सुझाव 2
’यदि आपको उचित और मुनासिब लगे तो अपने माता-पिता को बताएं कि आप गर्भवती हैं।

यदि आप घर में सबके साथ रहती हैं तो यह ज़रूरी है। यदि ज़रूरत पड़े तो उन्हें बताने के लिए किसी की मदद लें। वह परिवार का कोई दूसरा सदस्य या डाक्टर हो सकते हैं।

सुझाव 3
संभावनाओं के बारे में चर्चा करने के लिए डाक्टर के पास जाएं। यदि आप गर्भपात चाहें तो भी आप के पास अभी समय होगा।

आप क्या करना चाहती है?

ऽ क्या आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं?
यदि आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं तो अपने निवास स्थान के अनुसार आप गर्भपात के लिए क्लीनिक या चिकित्सालय जा सकती हैं। इस बारे में आपके डाक्टर सलाह दे सकते हैं।

ऽ क्या आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं?
हो सकता है कि आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहें। यदि आप की शादी नहीं हुई है या किसी स्थायी रिश्ते से नहीं बंधी हैं, तो क्या आप हालात का सामना कर पाएंगी?

आपके जीवन पर यह किस प्रकार असर डालेगा? आपकी शिक्षा पर? क्या आप को पर्याप्त सहयोग प्राप्त है- बच्चे के पिता की ओर से, या आपके परिवार से? क्या आपके पास गुज़ारे के लिए पर्याप्त धन है?

आप अपने बच्चे को किसी को गोद भी दे सकती हैं। फिर भी आपको काफी सोच-समझ कर फैसला करना होगा। आपको नहीं पता कि बच्चे को जन्म देने के बाद जब उसे किसी और को सौंपना होगा तब आपको कैसा लगेगा।

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Vikrant bete, yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi visheshagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye.samjhe? Ab jaldi ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phoren! Aur dubara madd ke liye hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein likhiye. https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Oh sirf 13 years aur aap! Ye gairkanuni hai bete! Suniye yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye unsafe sex ke 10 din poore hote hee chemist se liya gaya ek home pregnancy test kit se test lijiye. Phir kisi vishesagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se mill lijiye aur dekhiye kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts https://www.ippf.org/about-us/member-associations/india Lekin 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye, samjhe? https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Suniye Please. Jaldi se kisi visheshagya ya ache panjikrit doctor se miliye aur dekho kya n sakta hai. Agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar sakte hai, kisi bhi clinic mein.Kisi bharosemand doctor ki rai leejiye aur kisi neem hakeen ya chemist ki baaton mein bilkul mat aa jaaiye – DOCTOR ONLY. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Iske alawa aap FPAI clinic se sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko issi website pe mil jayegi. https://www.fpaindia.org Time mat gavaiye, jaldi keejie. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Karan bete, yaad rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya Phoren kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Ye bhi samajh lijiye 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye, samjhe? Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Raj bete, yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi visheshagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Yadi isse pehle koi unsafe sex hua hai toh ek pregnancy test lena uchit hoga, phoren yeh kijiye. Is test ko aap unsafe sex ke 10 din baad le sakti hain. Saath hee kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se bhi jaldi mil lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hello.muzhe bata sakti hai ki periods ke 6 din pahle sex kiya protection se per condom lick hogaya to Maine tbhi 5 min me ipill contraceptic keli to Kya mai pregnent hone ke chances to nai?mere periods 14 May ko aaye the abhi 10 ko aane chaheye nai aaye.maine doctorke pass Jake test ki negative aaya.per Kya ipill lenese periods late aate hai bohot?
Ji haan, Priya bete! Emerrgency contraceptive pills lene ke baad aisa hona koi badi baat nahi. In pills ka use unsafe sex ke baad 72 ghanton mein karna hota hain. Yadi ECP 72 ghanton ke andar le li gayi thi toh pregnancy ke chances na ke barabar hain...Lekin yeh mahila ke masik dharm par bhi asar kar saktee hain. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Namaste aunti ji....meri shadi ko 2 sal huwe h abhi mujhe kuch din phele pcod hui thi fir thik hogai fir me pregnent bhi hogai lekin pta ni suddenly apne aap abortion hogya or fir ab me beby nahi chahti jb tak meri pcod thik ni hoti me beby concive ni kr sakti...to aunty ji muje ye janna h mne apne hubby ke sath ovulation dino me relation bnaye or wo bhi unsafe...to kya m pregnent ho sakti hu jabki hmne 3 din relation bnaya jisme 2 bar sperm pura baahar gira andar gya ni sirf ek din gya to me isse pregnent ho sakti hu ky even mne suna h ki bar bar sex se sperm count kam hojata h...or fir mene unprotected sex ke 16 din bad check kiya to negative aaya 2 bar check kiya dono bar negative raha to plzz aap btao
Soniya bete, chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai lekin kyunki test negative hain toh nishchint hua ja sakta hain. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sanam beta is sthiti mein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain.Aap unsafe sex ke 10 din poore hote hee chemist se liya gaya ek home pregnancy test kit se test lijiye. Phir kisi vishesagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se mill lijiye aur dekhiye kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts https://www.ippf.org/about-us/member-associations/india Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Suniye Please. Jaldi se kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se miliye aur dekho kya n sakta hai. Agar jyada time nahi hua hoga to aap MTP ki maang kar sakte hai, kisi bhi clinic mein.Kisi bharosemand doctor ki rai leejiye aur kisi neem hakeen ya chemist ki baaton mein bilkul mat aa jaaiye – DOCTOR ONLY. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Iske alawa aap FPAI clinic se sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko issi website pe mil jayegi. https://www.fpaindia.org Time mat gavaiye, jaldi keejie. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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