mai ek ladki ke saath 8 saal se relation mein hu.....maine apni family se bhi milwaya hai usko or meri family ready hai usse shadi karwane ke kiye.....par ab ladki apni family ki ijjat ke liye shadi nhi kar rhi.....khud bhi roti hai or mai bhi bht pareshan hu......wo mujhse 100 km dur rehti hai.....phir bhi hum dono milte the or bahut pyar hai hum dono mein......bolti hai uske mind mein baith gya hai ki agar wo love marriage kar legi to uski family ki ijjat chali jayegi......wo caste se pandit hai or mai thakur......ab samajh nhi aa rha ki mai kya karu.....wo chah ke bhi khud ko ready nhi kar pa rhi hai mujhse shadi karne ke liye.......usko har tarah se samjha chuka hu call se bhi or mil ke bhi......phir bhi wo nhi maan rahi......plzzzz sahi suggestion de......mai nhi ji paunga uske bina