Beta jee, sabse pehle toh yeh bata doon ki Pyaar se koi nahin maanaa aaj tak – bhookh, pyaas, suicide… ya phir pathar se majnu ko maar daala duniya ne… !! So please zinda rehene ke liye ready rahiye. Beta. Theek hai aap inter caste shaadi chahtey hain. Ok! Lekin kyaa aap aur aapki gf, apne ghar waalon se Jonnjh sakenege? Kay aap dono saamna kar payenge … kal aapki mataji ke koi aisa kadam utha leey aya unke yahan kisi ne kuch kar leeya so kya ap log in sab haadson ko deal kar sakenege? Beta, yeh namumkin nahin lekin bahut hee mushkil hai. Iske parinaam saalon chal saktey hain… ghar se door, na khushi mein nag hum mein, na koi aana na ksis ka jaana- soch lo Please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane,aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. Yadi koi kadam uthate hain - to uske kya parinaam kya ho sakte hain - sab pooch leejiye aur aapko aur family ko kiss-kiss stithi ke liye tayyar rehna hai - uski poori knowledge le leejiye. Akhir baat - apki GF/ BF - jo bhi hain, unse ek - do baar poori tareh se baat kar leejiye - ki koi bhi kadma uthane se phele kya veh poori tareh ready hain. Kya veh samjhtey hain ki kya kya ho sakta hai - like, kidnap ka charge, rape ka charge, maata ya pita yadi maar peet karne lage, ya ann-shann, ya suicide ki dhamki - ya kisi ko heart attack aa jaaye - to kya veh yeh sab seh leynge - ya dheele padh jaayeinge? Aap full force ke saath aage badh rahe hain - aur aapka saathi ghabra ke peeche hat jaye - to phir aapki poori planning reh jayegee. Is kism ke sab baatien sochiye - poochiye - jaankari leejiye - aur phir kadm utahiye. Umeed hai, sab baatein clear ho chuki hain. Aapko, hum sab ki ore se - best of luck. https://lovematters.in/en/news/inter-caste-marriages-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/stuff-to-know-before-you-say-chal-ghar-se-bhag-chalein https://lovematters.in/en/marriage/eloping-top-five-facts Yadi aap kisi mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare Discussion Board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum