Beta abhi sabse pahle to aap apne dost ko kahiye koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. Yadi koi kadam uthate hain - to uske kya parinaam kya ho sakte hain - sab pooch lein aur unko aur family ko kiss-kiss stithi ke liye tayyar rehna hai - uski poori knowledge le lein. Ab baat hai aapke saath dene ki toh aap dekh lijiye ki kya wo dono balig hain, aur shadi mein koi samasya nahi hai? Yadi shadi mein ya shadi ke baad kisi tarah ki koi samasya hoti hai- ya police ka maamla banata hai - toh aapke sath dene ke karan aapse bhi poochha ja sakta hai- in sab baaton ke liye kya aap taiyar hain? Sabhi baaton ka vichar kar lijiye aur ek sahi nirnay lijiye. Aapke dost ko, hum sab ki ore se - best of luck. https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum