Aunty ji, i am 28 yrs old andnever had any girlfriend till date nor i have managed to get any girl for marriage(although parents tried to arrange earlier but could not materialize), now i m vry much frustated especially wen i see people around having partner wid dem, for last few months i have been looking 4 paid sex and erotic massages outside where i tend to visit twice every month which sometimes leaves me with guilt and shame dat i m wasting money and also going there repeatedly but avoid vaginal sex rather go for protected oral sex as far as possible. I urgently need a solution for such a kind of peculiar disease of mine, i dont know whether i m unfortunate that i could not have any girl in my life