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Wedding night sex: do's and don'ts

By Lyandra D'souza Friday, January 2, 2015 - 10:49
No matter how well you know your partner or how little, wedding night sex can still be tense. After the stress of the wedding, you may well feel nervous about the sex – especially if it's your first time. Read on to find out how to cope.

After the stress of the wedding, it's quite likely that the prospect of wedding night sex – especially if it's your first time – is likely to cause you some anxiety and nervousness. Read on to find out how to cope with the pressure.

Do...

  • Feel confidentThere's nothing sexier than confidence. So do whatever you can to make yourself feel as confident, desirable and beautiful as you can. Buy yourself some pretty lingerie, do some extra bridal beauty pampering. You can also set the mood by playing some romantic music. If you feel beautiful and sexy, your spouse is more than likely to agree!
  • Talk to each otherFor first time lovers, it's vital to communicate and share what you’re feeling with each other during sex. It may feel more natural, but it's important to tell your partner how you feel about what they're doing. If you like it, then you could say, "That feels good," or moan a little bit when you like what they're doing.Also, observe your partner's reaction to what you’re doing, and try and do it differently if they seem to be very still and quiet. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for the both of you.
  • Take things slowlyAll the hype and sly jokes surrounding wedding night sex may make you keen to see what it’s all about and hurry. Instead relax and take it slow. Savour and enjoy every moment. Even if it may not be the best sex ever or meet your expectations, the wedding night is still likely to be amongst your most romantic experiences with your spouse.

Don't...

  • Expect too muchSavour and enjoy every moment. Even if it may not be the best sex ever or meet your expectations, the wedding night is still likely to be amongst your most romantic experiences with your spouse. Whatever happens, it's far more important that you enjoy yourself and feel connected to your partner.
  • Be stuck on the idea of the wedding nightBetween the endless round of relatives you've had to meet, the rituals you've had to go through, the parties you've had to attend and maybe all the alcohol you've had to drink, it is more than understandable if you’re both too tired for lengthy foreplay. If so, it might be better to wait for morning. You'll be more rested, fresher and still in your wedding bed. It’s a shame to waste your special occasion because you have the idea you have to ‘get the job done’ before bedtime!
  • Let the first time impact you too muchSex takes practice and if it's your first time ever, you're likely to feel a bit clumsy. Take things slowly and keep communicating with your partner. Don't focus just on the physical feelings instead be gentle with each other and remind yourself how lucky you are to finally be married and in each other's arms.

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Bete yeh smajh lijiye ki hastmaithun aur swapndosh dono hee bohot hi common baat hain insein na hi koi kamzori aati hai aur na kisi bhi tarah ki koi smasya hoti hai. Aur adhik jankari aap yaha se haaasil kar sakte hain: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/wet-dreams-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/en/forum/question/kripya-mujhe-batayen-ki-kya-nightfall-common-hai-mujhe-approx-har-28-se-32-din-par https://lovematters.in/en/news/do-i-need-treatment-wet-dreams Aap khud ye nirnay le ki aapka ling chota hai ya bada yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Aur sorry bête isay bada ya lamba karne ka koi tarika nahi hai Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liye yaha padh ljiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mujhe night fall bhaut hota hai kya karu mujhe samaj me nhi ata hai mam. Or mera size kam hai and mai hand job v nhi karta keu ki SB bolte hai yeah galat hai to kya Kari plz mam help me. I need your help.
Sunny Remo
Sun, 04/05/2015 - 15:27
Aunty ji kya aisa koi cream ya tab.hai jo ki meri patni ki chud main khujli ko naturaly badhaye....meri chodne ki capacity 5-8 ghante ki hai...likin woh maximum 1 hrs main hi jhad jaati hai,kya uske chudane ki shamta badh sakti hai???
Sunny Remo
Sun, 04/05/2015 - 15:24
Aunty ji kya aisa koi cream ya tab.hai jo ki meri patni ki chud main khujli ko naturaly badhaye....meri chodne ki capacity 5-8 ghante ki hai...likin woh maximum 1 hrs main hi jhad jaati hai,kya uske chudane ki shamta badh sakti hai???
Really need advice.. I m having mah first night aftr 4 days.. Excited bit but a lot nervous.. I hav heard inserting pains a lot especially to gals.. Is it true..?? Does it really pains a lot..?? Any way to reduce it.. Please suggest..
Relax relax!! bête Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
Hmmm aap pehle toh yeh batao kisnay aapko yeh bewajha waali baat batai ki ling ka size 7 hi hona anivrya hai? Aisa kuch nahi hai !! . Ling ke size se zyada aapko apne andaaz pe ya sex karne ke tareeke pe focus karna hai, samjhe?! size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karna- unke saath timing bithana- in baaton par focus karna, theek hai? All the best. zara yeh ling ka size bhi detail mein padh lo: http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes
suniey bête Nightfall is quite common, toh jab koi samsya hi nahi to uppaey kaisa? so aap pareshanmat ho . aur zara yeh link padho: http://lovematters.in/en/news/wet-dreams-top-five-facts
Please answer in hindi mera penis erection k baad 5 inches ka hota h or bhot hard ho jata kafi der tak hard hi rehta hai lekin kisi ne mujhe bataya tha ki sex ke liye 7 inches ka penis hona jaruri h. ab meri 6 month baad shaadi hone wali h to kya mere sex life me problem ayegi.please mujhe iska answer batayein hindi mein please.
auntyji meri padosi wali aunty hai woh bahut close hai woh chahti hai ke main sex karo unke saath kya main kar salts ho
Listen Sonia bête, the only way one can make out or guess is if the hymen has broken, which can be for any reason actually. No one can know anyhow about your virginity unless you yourself didn’t admit or tell them about it ok? So don’t worry.
siresh kumar
Mon, 11/03/2014 - 09:23
Please answer in hindi mera penis erection k baad 5 inches ka hota h or bhot hard ho jata kafi der tak hard hi rehta hai lekin kisi ne mujhe bataya tha ki sex ke liye 7 inches ka penis hona jaruri h. ab meri 6 month baad shaadi hone wali h to kya mere sex life me problem ayegi.please mujhe iska answer batayein hindi mein please.
Aunty ji ap khte h ki hastmaithun se kamjori ni ati jabki jahan tk maine study kiya h uske anusar sperm nikalne se phle protein niklta h jisse kmjori ati h to ismen confuse ho gya hu plz ap muje btaiye kya hastmaithun nuksan dayak h ?
Relax relax!! Akash bête pehle toh yeh suno bête ki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh iske ilava, baki bhi bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok?
mam mera lauda bahut bada aur mota hai...aur meri gf ki chutt bahut choti... lund andar jata bhi nhi..aur vo rone lgti hai zoor se.. mai hat jata hoon kya karun ...bta dijiye please .i love her
mam mera lauda bahut bada aur mota hai...aur meri gf ki chutt bahut choti... lund andar jata bhi nhi..aur vo rone lgti hai zoor se.. mai hat jata hoon kya karun ...bta dijiye please .i love her
aunty ji mera penis lamba to hai lekin mota nahi hai... gym mai jese muscle banane k supplements aate hai wese hi penis ko mota karne ki medicine ya supplements bataiye????
Anonymous
Sat, 10/25/2014 - 23:47
mujhe sex karne ka bohut man karta hein.par meri life mein koi nahin hai,islie musterbation karte hun.par musterbation karke thak chuka hun. Koi or upay hain meri sex satisfy karne ka.?mein 24 saal ka hun.aur mein kabi intimate nehi hua hoon kisi ke saath, koe upay bolie sex control karne ka
auntyjee kya aap bata sakati he ki agar foreplay me ladki ke nichle bhag me licking karata hu to health ke liye koi khatara to nahi hoga na??
auntyjee kya aap bata sakati he ki agar foreplay me ladki ke nichle bhag me licking karata hu to health ke liye koi khatara to nahi hoga na??
Auntyji How to make a girl love me who is already in love with some one??
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