Q: The foreskin of my penis is intact. How painful will first time sex be? Abhi, Agra. Auntyji says... Your foreskin should most certainly be ‘intact’. It should also slide back and forth easily. A man’s first time should be all pleasure and no pain.
On our wedding night we want to have sex without using a condom. But at the same time she shouldn't get pregnant. What should we do Auntyji? Arun, Pune. Helloji Arun puttar! Good you want to take an informed decision on birth control from the start.
Q: Is it safe to have sex without a condom if we're both virgins? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and for the first time we want to have the perfect experience of sex without a condom. Is it a bad idea? Bharti, New Delhi
First time sex – you will never forget it! It can be scary, but also exciting and special. So it's important to have a nice experience. How can you do this? Find out in the fourth edition of our Top Five Facts.
Nervousness, anxiety and stress may be part of your first time sex experience. But they don't have to be, says Dr Syed Mubin Akhtar – a Pakistani sexpert. Some of his tips: don’t rush into sex on the wedding night, look up info and talk about it.
Q: My girlfriend won’t have sex with me. We’ve been dating for a year, first in high school, now together in Delhi for college. She says she loves me, but it’s really frustrating. Would it be wrong to end the relationship? Ajit, Rourkela
“I am not a virgin. How can I expect my partner to be one? That’s unfair,” my friend said to me. That's progressive, given how obsessed Indians are with virginity. Let's find out more about him in this story.
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