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Huge penis, painful sex: What’s the way out?

By Auntyji Tuesday, May 3, 2016 - 16:43
Auntyji, my boyfriend has a huge penis and it hurts a lot during sex. I hate saying no to him every time. Is there a way out? Please help! Meeta (24), Delhi.

Auntyji saysOh ho Meeta, I can just see all the gentlemen rushing to read this column. It seems like a problem that usually means neighbours’ envy and owners’ pride.

Family jewels

So while your bf may be super proud of his family legacy and heirloom, this is not working out to your advantage at all, is it? People envy large sizes and God knows it is the topic of incessant debate, but someone should ask for the user experience as well, right?

Not every experience is a memorable one, is it? Bigger the better works for a TV set. It is not applicable to any body part. The ideal penis size will forever be a contentious discussion.

Opening act

So Meeta, there are four golden rules largely (Oops! Sorry for the pun) for a size that’s too big. To begin with, focus more on the foreplay. You may want to begin with mantras that relax you and put your stress away as you get some mood lighting and aroma therapy started. He has to make his act better and focus on what all he needs to do with you during foreplay.

All this needs a lot of love, patience and just the two of you being super relaxed. No room for quickies, just yet. Enjoy what you are doing and feeling and don’t let the pressure of penetration get to either of you. Does that sound okay?

For the love of lube

Dear beta Meeta, condoms and any water-based lubricants are your best friends here. The market is quite open to these now. If you do not find what you are looking for, your best bet then is your chemist. Your chemist perhaps is well aware that you are not a doctor of medicine. Condoms or lubricants are quite common things to buy so let it not hamper your shopping style.

Lubes and condoms help in making penetration somewhat pain-free. It also means that both of you need to be relaxed and in no hurry.

You, lady, should not freak out every time. Often, women get terrified of penetration, size, pregnancy and guilt. This fear involuntarily contracts the muscles of the vagina causing it to tighten up so much that penetration becomes even more difficult and thus more painful.

Perfect positions

Another thing to keep in mind is trying out new positions. You both should try new positions that facilitate excitement and entry. Check them out on a reliable website or find some reliable books on the issue. Believe me, there are some books in the market specifically for issues of penis size and sex positions. See if they work for you and if you can practise them.

Always remember, sex is better when you are more relaxed and comfortable with each other. The most crucial part here is that you talk and communicate with ease and friendliness. Don’t yell, ”Get that beast out of me!” You may leave him feeling confused. He can’t cut it off to suit Her Highness, can he?

 

Package deal

Now for the man who is well hung. He is the boss in his circle but he feels like a peanut because his girl runs a mile every time he shows off his wares. That’s a conundrum, if there ever is one, hain jee?

This seems very funny now. What a problem, sirji! Throw in some benefits like your sweet temperament, loving attitude and naughty sex talks. Remember sex is pleasurable and fun only when the two of you are talking through the process and working it through. It is not like prepping for an exam and predicting failure!

To protect the privacy of the author, the person in the picture is a model.

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Dear Himesh, sorry to inform you but there's no possible way to increase the size of a penis. Read more about penis shapes and sizes here: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/en/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/en/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/en/news/what-women-penis Try this technique and see if it helps you. Emphasize on your partner's body, and focus on your partner. Involve yourself in foreplay. If you are highly aroused, there is an increase in chances of premature ejaculation. So, you could also masturbate before sex, giving enough time for your body to get an erection again. Condom also helps in prevents premature ejaculation. Read the link given. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts. All. the best If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Try this technique and see if it helps you. Emphasize on your partner's body, and focus on your partner. Involve yourself in foreplay. If you are highly aroused, there is an increase in chances of premature ejaculation. So, you could also masturbate before sex, giving enough time for your body to get an erection again. Condom also helps in prevents premature ejaculation. Read the link given. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts. All. the best If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beti, Kya aap is bare mein abhi tak kisi doctor se mili hani? Ek vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se fauran iss baare main consult kijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi, beta. Zaroor poochhiye. Ham koshish karenge aapko sahi jaankaari de sakein. Yadi aap kisi bhee mudde par humse gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Dear Neeraj, having sex with anyone, younger, older or same age is a very personal choice. It varies from person to person. Do keep in mind that engaging in sex with an Aunty may seem fun and casual but can turn into a very difficult situation, such as social embarrassment, unwanted pregnancy, blackmail. Give it a read: : https://lovematters.in/en/news/should-i-try-sex-older-woman If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sorry, bete. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika maujood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yahan se hasil kijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/hi/news/penis-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/hi/news/what-women-penis Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
aunty ji I am 22 year old And I like aunties so much Dost any aunty want to sex with young guy like me who is younger than her ?????
auntyji wen I hav sex wit my gf my semen gets leak very soon I can't hav sex fr more Dan 5 min..wen I insert my penis within 1 min it gets leaked..I can't satisfy my gf in sex.. so pls tel me d solution how can I stop ejaculation so early ...
Anonymous
Tue, 05/03/2016 - 22:30
hello Aunty... Mere yoni me bhut dard rahta h.... toilet ktne se jyda pain hota... or toilet me bhi comtrl nhi rahta h... sex krne se nhi jyda pain hp jata h... kya reson dard rahne ka... plz teply me
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