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Wedding night sex: do's and don'ts

No matter how well you know your partner or how little, wedding night sex can still be tense. After the stress of the wedding, you may well feel nervous about the sex – especially if it's your first time. Read on to find out how to cope.

After the stress of the wedding, it's quite likely that the prospect of wedding night sex – especially if it's your first time – is likely to cause you some anxiety and nervousness. Read on to find out how to cope with the pressure.

Do...

  • Feel confident There's nothing sexier than confidence. So do whatever you can to make yourself feel as confident, desirable and beautiful as you can. Buy yourself some pretty lingerie, do some extra bridal beauty pampering. You can also set the mood by playing some romantic music. If you feel beautiful and sexy, your spouse is more than likely to agree!
  • Talk to each other For first time lovers, it's vital to communicate and share what you’re feeling with each other during sex. It may feel more natural, but it's important to tell your partner how you feel about what they're doing. If you like it, then you could say, "That feels good," or moan a little bit when you like what they're doing.Also, observe your partner's reaction to what you’re doing, and try and do it differently if they seem to be very still and quiet. Sex is supposed to be pleasurable for the both of you.
  • Take things slowly All the hype and sly jokes surrounding wedding night sex may make you keen to see what it’s all about and hurry. Instead relax and take it slow. Savour and enjoy every moment. Even if it may not be the best sex ever or meet your expectations, the wedding night is still likely to be amongst your most romantic experiences with your spouse.

Don't...

  • Expect too much Savour and enjoy every moment. Even if it may not be the best sex ever or meet your expectations, the wedding night is still likely to be amongst your most romantic experiences with your spouse. Whatever happens, it's far more important that you enjoy yourself and feel connected to your partner.
  • Be stuck on the idea of the wedding night Between the endless round of relatives you've had to meet, the rituals you've had to go through, the parties you've had to attend and maybe all the alcohol you've had to drink, it is more than understandable if you’re both too tired for lengthy foreplay. If so, it might be better to wait for morning. You'll be more rested, fresher and still in your wedding bed. It’s a shame to waste your special occasion because you have the idea you have to ‘get the job done’ before bedtime!
  • Let the first time impact you too much Sex takes practice and if it's your first time ever, you're likely to feel a bit clumsy. Take things slowly and keep communicating with your partner. Don't focus just on the physical feelings instead be gentle with each other and remind yourself how lucky you are to finally be married and in each other's arms.

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aunty ji mae kisse ke sath true lov krta hun but usse kaise bolu sex krne ke lia dar hai ki chod na dae abhi voh study kr rahi hai
Sneha dear!! Ok suno, kya tumhe pata hai ki tumhe kya pasand hai , kiss cheez se uttejna hoti hai, kab sabse achcha lagta hai… do you know all this? Yeh link padho : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-orgasms Ab apne husband ko yeh sab samkhjao- pyar se- sex se pehele, na ki bilkul us hee waqt! Unhe kaho ki tum kya chahtee ho aur kya nahin… isme koi sharm nahin hai beta. Yeh tumhara right hai. relax karo yeh bhi life ka ek phase ho skata hai, aur ho skaay to is baat ka pata lagao ki aapko kyun mann nhi ho raha hai aur life ko enjoy karo ho sakay to saath mey bahar ek outing lekar aoo samay key sath sab normal ho jaeyga.
Aunty ¡ Kya real m first time sex m ladke ko b pain hota h If he is a virgen guy..... Btao plzzzz Coz i m yet virgen
Hmmm suno Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . Phir bhi, sirf yeh hee ek activity mein hee time na lagayein, baki bhi bahut see activitys hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… All the best. Aur abhi umar hee kya hai aapki ki shaadi ki chinta le baithe, chalo koi sensible kaam karo!!
Hmm siniey bête yeh nightfall hona bohot hi samanya baat hai ismey ghabraney ki koi zarurat nahi hai aur yadi aapko jaldi fall hota hai to suniey Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai.
Auntyji How to make a girl love me who is already in love with some one??
auntyjee kya aap bata sakati he ki agar foreplay me ladki ke nichle bhag me licking karata hu to health ke liye koi khatara to nahi hoga na??
auntyjee kya aap bata sakati he ki agar foreplay me ladki ke nichle bhag me licking karata hu to health ke liye koi khatara to nahi hoga na??
Anonymous
Sat, 10/25/2014 - 23:47
mujhe sex karne ka bohut man karta hein.par meri life mein koi nahin hai,islie musterbation karte hun.par musterbation karke thak chuka hun. Koi or upay hain meri sex satisfy karne ka.?mein 24 saal ka hun.aur mein kabi intimate nehi hua hoon kisi ke saath, koe upay bolie sex control karne ka
aunty ji mera penis lamba to hai lekin mota nahi hai... gym mai jese muscle banane k supplements aate hai wese hi penis ko mota karne ki medicine ya supplements bataiye????
mam mera lauda bahut bada aur mota hai...aur meri gf ki chutt bahut choti... lund andar jata bhi nhi..aur vo rone lgti hai zoor se.. mai hat jata hoon kya karun ...bta dijiye please .i love her
mam mera lauda bahut bada aur mota hai...aur meri gf ki chutt bahut choti... lund andar jata bhi nhi..aur vo rone lgti hai zoor se.. mai hat jata hoon kya karun ...bta dijiye please .i love her
Relax relax!! Akash bête pehle toh yeh suno bête ki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti . yadi chahein toh iske ilava, baki bhi bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies… ok?
Aunty ji ap khte h ki hastmaithun se kamjori ni ati jabki jahan tk maine study kiya h uske anusar sperm nikalne se phle protein niklta h jisse kmjori ati h to ismen confuse ho gya hu plz ap muje btaiye kya hastmaithun nuksan dayak h ?
siresh kumar
Mon, 11/03/2014 - 09:23
Please answer in hindi mera penis erection k baad 5 inches ka hota h or bhot hard ho jata kafi der tak hard hi rehta hai lekin kisi ne mujhe bataya tha ki sex ke liye 7 inches ka penis hona jaruri h. ab meri 6 month baad shaadi hone wali h to kya mere sex life me problem ayegi.please mujhe iska answer batayein hindi mein please.
Listen Sonia bête, the only way one can make out or guess is if the hymen has broken, which can be for any reason actually. No one can know anyhow about your virginity unless you yourself didn’t admit or tell them about it ok? So don’t worry.
auntyji meri padosi wali aunty hai woh bahut close hai woh chahti hai ke main sex karo unke saath kya main kar salts ho
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