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Should I worry about my small penis?

By Auntyji Tuesday, February 12, 2013 - 07:30
Q: I have a very small penis. I want to get married but I am worried that I won't be able to satisfy my future wife. I don't know what to do to make my penis thicker. I am very nervous. Please help me, Auntyji. – Sameer, Agra.

Auntyji says... I like your attitude, Sameer puttar. Rather than just worrying about a problem, you actually want to do something about it. Unfortunately, the short answer is that you can’t make your penis bigger, whatever all the fake ads claim. But no, you shouldn’t be worried either.

So you think that your penis is small. Maybe you’re right about it betaji. I will give you the benefit of lack of any evidence. But let's just consider a couple of quick facts.Sameer puttar there are two things. One, an average male penis is usually 12 centimeters long when erect (measuring from where it meets the stomach to the tip). Two, I have yet to come across a woman for whom sexual pleasure was limited by her partner’s penis size.

Boasting

So lets talk about the matter of size first. Or should I say the size of the matter. I know you boys like to compare sizes and share exploits. But we all know the reality. Just like you, your friends have mastered the art of boasting and the craft or exaggeration. Every round of drinks adds an inch. It is quite likely that you are quite sufficiently endowed and just a bit more truthful than your friends. So betaji just don’t worry about these things. If you’re in double digits in centimeters then why fret my son.

Of course, it is possible that you really do have a micropenis, but that is very rare, so I’m assuming you probably don’t. You can read more about this in our information about penis shapes and sizes.

Technique

So let’s take a more likely scenario where we actually lack a bit in size, but not in an unusual way. Again I would say, worry not puttar ji. In my extremely humble opinion, unless you’re aiming for a career in pornography, a larger penis really doesn’t matter. I am sure you must have realized that your size makes no impact on the amount of your pleasure.

Good news is that most women feel it doesn’t affect their pleasure either. I see that you are looking to get married and worried about your wife’s expectations. Well that’s a good thing to think about. What we need to master is the technique, not the tool. A woman’s vagina is an extremely hospitable environment for a welcome penis and would happily accommodate all shapes and sizes.

Sameer, what you need to ensure is that you understand her needs well. Any penis would be able to reach her pleasure points, and the rest can be taken care of by your hands and tongue. And betaji never forget that your heart can do wonders too.

Save your money

Now lets talk about your original question, the one about making your penis thicker. Since the penis gets so much exercise its impossible for it to gain any fat. Yes, that’s a very bad joke. Penis is actually just a muscle and its rigidity is determined by the flow of blood. There is no scientifically proven way to increase its length or girth once you have reached your adult size. Yes, different websites, friends and foes will suggest multiple solutions. Save your time, money and energy, and just listen to your dear Auntyji.

Don’t worry about the penis and its girth. What really matter is love. Just throw oodles of it onto your wife and you’ll be all set my boy. Sameer puttar always remember one thing, size does matter, but only the size of your heart.

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Mon, 02/25/2013 - 13:36
i am R**** from Lucknow and i wanted to know whether i should wash my glans penis with soap or with water after masturbation ???
बेटा जल्दी होने से कोई बात नहीं, don't worry. सबसे पहले तो अपनी पार्ट्नर की बॉडी को समझ लो- उसको टाइम दो. और यदि शरीर में उत्तेजना अधिक होगी, सेक्स की भावना ज़्यादा होगी तो शीघ्र पतन होने की संभावना भी अधिक ही होगी. ऐसी स्थिती में, पार्ट्नर पर फोकस बढ़ाना, फोरप्ले , यानी की प्रवेश करने से पहले बहुत से अलग अलग क्रियाएं करना , जिनसे दोनो को आनंद मिले, अपने पार्ट्नर की उत्तेजना बढ़ाना, यह सब activites सबसे ज़रूरी हैं. इसके इलावा, पार्ट्नर के साथ सेक्स करने से पहले, एक बार हस्त्मेथुन कर सकते हैं, उतने समय पहले जीतने में लिंग में तनाव आ जाए. कॉंडम का इस्तेमाल भी जल्दी discharge में help करता है. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
Auntyji my penis is around 10 to 10.5 centimeteres .And i never had sex before and im scared if i get into bed with someone will it satisfy her.Im also afraid if i would get divorced just for hising the fact that im small.And i truly want to tell her everything about me but sharing my penis size to her its a bit awkward and i don't know how she will react to it.I mean who shares it at the first meet when the boy and girl are given chance to talk.And i also think why me who has this problem of small penis when all my friends are well endowed.Need some respite from you aunty
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There are many issues here which have the potential of not working out. But the easier one, first FYI, an erect penis, more than 2 and half inches, is good enough for sexual intercourse - as long as it’s ready enough. I hope you have no other related issues with hormones etc - if than be the case - you have to see a doctor as well. You can also try different sex positions to get better sexual experience - when the time comes, but start reading up. Now comes the 2 inches difference between you - It may be just 2 inches but for many men- this is a HUGE matter and for women too. She may not even go ahead with it - let’s be candid and look for a guy above her height - hard to find tho. OR she may be ok with it. But, will you be? Many men have real self esteem issues linked to taller than them women - they get commented upon, are at the receiving end of jokes ... many of them even about size of penis - will you be able to handle that all and be fair to her? Not an easy decision. PLUS its not all your choice No? She has to agree as well - yes? So take the first step and see how and where it goes - keep all these issues on the table to discuss - when and if things pick up momentum. All the best. https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/good-body-image-vital-for-great-sex If you would like to join in on an elaborate discussion on any topic, feel free to join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Bete, aap khud ye nirney lein ki aapka ling chota hai ya bada yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Aur sorry bête isay bada ya lamba karne ka koi tarika nahi hai. Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liey yaha padh ljiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/male-body/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/will-my-wife-think-my-penis-is-small Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bithao Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare Discussion Board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Auntiji mera ling bhut chhota h or mene abhi tk kuchh bhi ling ko bda krne ke liye upyog nhi kiya kya mera ling bda ho skta h or kya wife ko ling ko muh me lene se bda ho skta h kya mene suna tha but kbhi try nhi kiya pls help me auntiji
Nahi Yogi bete is tarah ling ke size ko bada nahi kiya ja sakta hai. Aur aap khud ye nirney lein ki aapka ling chota hai ya bada yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ki sahi jaankari ke liye yaha padh ljiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/male-body/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunti ji pls aisa kuchh btaiye ki jisse mera ling 7inch ka ho mera ling 3-4inch ka hi or me isse bhut sad hu or kya hastmethun se ling chhota hota h kya me week me 4 se 5br hastmaithun krta hu pls auntiji help me
Bete hastmaiyhun ka ling ke size par koi asar nahi hota hai. Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Aur bete Ling ka size badhane ya mota karne ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. yaha padh ljiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/male-body/penis-enlargement-doesnt-work https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Relax bete! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness and even not decide the size of penis. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-top-five-facts-part-1 If you would like to join in on an elaborate discussion on any topic, feel free to join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aunty ji Mai aayush maine apne ling chote hone ki wajah se 10 saal se pareahan hoo ab to bahut jada q ki maine apne ling chote hone ki baat ab apne ghar me batayi hai jab shadi fix ho gai Is ling chote hone ki wajah se jeene ki umeed chod chuka hu bas apni maa k liye jeeta hoo Maine kai video utube per dekh ki ling normal sije 3inch se bhi chota hona micropenis kehlata hai Micropenis kya hota hai Kya ye male hone k lachhar nahi Plese aunty sahi bataye
Aayush bete please is baare mein aap kisi vishesagya ya ek achche panjikrit doctor se mill lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jatin bete aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete uttejana hone par ya sex ki bhavana adhik hone par aisa hona bahut hi common hai. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Dear bete please consult a specialist or registered doctor about it. Read here: https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/what-is-a-micropenis If you would like to join in on an elaborate discussion on any topic, feel free to join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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