Unplanned pregnancy
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अनचाहा गर्भधारण - अब क्या करें?

यदि आप अनचाहे गर्भवती हो जाती हैं तो आपको इस बात का फैसला करना होगा कि क्या करें। आपके सामने दो विकल्प मौजूद होते हैं: गर्भपात या बच्चे को जन्म देना।

आप जो भी फैसला करें, सोच-समझ कर करें। आपकी सहायता के लिए यहां कुछ सुझाव दिए जा रहे हैं।

सुझाव 1
अपने किसी विश्वासपात्र से इस बारे में बात करें। खासकर, किसी ऐसे वयस्क से, जो आपको सलाह और सहयोग दे सके, जैसे कि आपकी मां, मौसी, चाची या कोई मित्र।

सुझाव 2
’यदि आपको उचित और मुनासिब लगे तो अपने माता-पिता को बताएं कि आप गर्भवती हैं।

यदि आप घर में सबके साथ रहती हैं तो यह ज़रूरी है। यदि ज़रूरत पड़े तो उन्हें बताने के लिए किसी की मदद लें। वह परिवार का कोई दूसरा सदस्य या डाक्टर हो सकते हैं।

सुझाव 3
संभावनाओं के बारे में चर्चा करने के लिए डाक्टर के पास जाएं। यदि आप गर्भपात चाहें तो भी आप के पास अभी समय होगा।

आप क्या करना चाहती है?

ऽ क्या आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं?
यदि आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं तो अपने निवास स्थान के अनुसार आप गर्भपात के लिए क्लीनिक या चिकित्सालय जा सकती हैं। इस बारे में आपके डाक्टर सलाह दे सकते हैं।

ऽ क्या आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं?
हो सकता है कि आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहें। यदि आप की शादी नहीं हुई है या किसी स्थायी रिश्ते से नहीं बंधी हैं, तो क्या आप हालात का सामना कर पाएंगी?

आपके जीवन पर यह किस प्रकार असर डालेगा? आपकी शिक्षा पर? क्या आप को पर्याप्त सहयोग प्राप्त है- बच्चे के पिता की ओर से, या आपके परिवार से? क्या आपके पास गुज़ारे के लिए पर्याप्त धन है?

आप अपने बच्चे को किसी को गोद भी दे सकती हैं। फिर भी आपको काफी सोच-समझ कर फैसला करना होगा। आपको नहीं पता कि बच्चे को जन्म देने के बाद जब उसे किसी और को सौंपना होगा तब आपको कैसा लगेगा।

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Periods ke DAURAAN? Tab toh pregnant hone ka chance na ke barabar hai beta.Phir bhi kisi bhi risk ya sankraman se bachne ke liye condom ka istemaal anivarya hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ab kya situation hain? Kya unhe periods aayein? Sorry, Amar beta. Hum kisi bhi medicine ka naam apko nahi bata sakte! Aur naa hi is tarah koi bhi medicine lena swasth hai! Bete chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya Phoren kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ash bete, condom fatne ke case mein emergency contraceptive pills ka sewan karne ki salaah di jaati hain. Lekin kyunki kahi adhik samay beet chuka hain toh phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi visheshagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Isha bete, yadi yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi visheshagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Please domestic solution ke chakkar mein mat padiye. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rahul bete, yadi yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi visheshagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakte hai jiski jaankari aapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mem meri gf ka mc me ane ka time 28-30 aj 10 tareek ho gayi abi tak period nhi aaye he mene pichli 20 tareekh kobsex kiya tha jiske bad 30 tak use period a jane the nahi aye mene home pregnancy test bi kiya usme nagative aa raha he par mujhe dar lag raha he kahi vo pregnant to nahi hena ya fir period miss ho sakte he lambe time tak ... Pls tell me.
Isme itna dar nahin beta… period late bhi ho jaate hain.. toh sabse better yeh hoga ki aap kuch roz dekh lijiye aur phir phoren ek doctor ko mil lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Diksha bete, itna late tak periods ka na hona toh apne aap mein ek problem ho sakti hai! Kyaa aap sure hain ki pregnancy ke chance nahin hain? Yadi isse pehle koi unsafe sex hua hai toh ek pregnancy test lena uchit hoga, phoren yeh kijiye. Saath hee kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se bhi jaldi mil lijiye. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mam mene apni gf sath prso sex kiya ...or uske poora andr nai dala apna penis....bs thoda sa dala..or mujhe sperm wali feelings v nai aayi thi.....mene bhr nikal liya apna penis uske baad thoda thoda rub kiya uski ovary pe apna penis mene....sperm wali feelins nai aayi thi tb.....kya is se pregrant ho sakti hai meri gf ....
Ajay bete, yaad rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya Phoren kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Manish bete, jise aap seal keh rahe hain, wo hymen hain. Hymen ho ya na ho, as long as ek drop bhi andar chale jaye, pregnancy ke chance hain. Test kijiye, sex ke 10 din baad, Phoren. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ummm! Yadi unsafe sex ke baad bhee unhe periods ho rahe hain toh ismein pregnancy ke chances na ke barabar hai. Phir bhi yadi aap aur safe hona chahtey hain to ek Home pregnancy test kar leejiye aur stithi nischit ki ja sakti hain. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
màdam namaste madam meri shadi ko thik 2 month hogya he auŕ hum avi baçha nhi chahàte meri wife kõ pichle mahine me means to huaa tha ĺekin is mahine me means ñhi huwa he"aur mujhe doubt he kî kàhi bacha baith gaya ho"please madam aap sahi suggestions dé avi kya kare hame avi bacha nhi chaiya
Namaste, Bishal bete! Itna late tak periods ka na hona toh apne aap mein ek problem ho sakti hai! Kyaa aap sure hain ki pregnancy ke chance nahin hain? Yadi isse pehle koi unsafe sex hua hai toh ek pregnancy test lena uchit hoga, phoren yeh kijiye. Saath hee kisi visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se bhi jaldi mil lijiye. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mona bete, pregnancy ka pata chalne par jitna jaldi ho sake, doctor se milne aur MTP ki maang karne mein samajhdaari hain. Pregnancy ke pehle 12 weeks tak aasani se abortion access kiya ja sakta hain. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sai bete, in dawaion ka sewan doctor ki hidaayat pe hi kiya jaata hain. Aise apni marzi se kabhi bhee nahi le liya karte. Ab jald se jald ek panjikrit doctor ya visheshagya se consult kijiye. Kripya aaj ke baad condom ka nirdharit upyog keejiye, apne liye aur apni partner ke liye. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ravi bete, shuru se third month tak aur phir saatvein mahene se le kar, Iss samay avoid kijiye. Jo wife ko pasand ho woh hi kijiye, jo doctor salaah de woh bhi samajh lijiye. Aur dekho bête behtar hoga ki aap condom ka istemaal karein. Ya phir discharge andar NA hone dein. Iske ilava wife ki comfort ka poora dhyaan keejiye.Aur haan! Last months mein definitely safety rakhiye. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-pregnancy-top-five-facts Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jee nahi bilkul bhee nahi. Suniye bête! 18 saal se kam umar ki mahila ke saath kiya gaya sex chahein woh uski marzi se hee kyun na kiya gaya ho RAPE ki category mein aata hai. Isliye aisi baton ka vichar karne wale viyakti ko netik-anetik baton ka vichar karna chahiye. samjhe? https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/im-21-in-love-with-a-teenager Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mantu bete is goli ko lene ke baad pregnancy ke chances bahut kam ya na ke barabar rah jate hai. Unwanted ek emergency goli hai jo ki unsafe sex ke 72 ghanton ke andar hee lee jaati hai, lekin yeh mahila ke masik dharm par asar kar saktee hai. PLEASE in goliyon ko laparvahi se istemaal mat keejiye. Safe sex ke liye condom ka istemal kiya jaata hai naa ki emergency pills ka bete, yaha padhiye zara: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex https://lovematters.in/hi/birth-control/top-10-facts-about-emergency-contraceptive-pills Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ab kya sthiti hai bête? Aapne safe sex kiya tha, with condom, toh isme pregnancy ke chances nahi lagte hai lekin aap sure hone ke liye ek home pregnancy test le lijiye. Aur bête period ke late aane ke anya karan bhee ho sakte jaise ki hormonal chaages, stress ya koi tanav. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/unsafe-sex-missed-period-am-i-pregnant Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mam mai meri girlfrend ko 20 ko piriod aate hai our maine 5ko sex kiya wo bhi ling pura ander nhi ja paya tha kyuki pahli baar usne our humne sex kiya tha our turant mera nikal gya tha our piriod 20 ko miss ho gya tha our 21 ko subah test kiya pregnancy kit se lekin resulte negetive aya kya wah pregnent ho sakti hai please help me just
Ab kya sthiti hai bête! Agar period nahi aaya ho aur pregnancy test se bhee pata na chal pa raha ho toh kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se mill lijiye. Yadd rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/unsafe-sex-missed-period-am-i-pregnant Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ab kya sthiti hai Jay bête? Aapne safe sex kiya tha toh isme pregnancy ke chances toh nahi lagte. Lekin itna late tak period ka na aana swashth nahi hai aap kuchh din aur dekh lijiye aur phir iske liye kisi visheshgya ya panjikrit doctor se consult kar lijiye. Ise bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/unsure-about-being-pregnant/unsafe-sex-missed-period-am-i-pregnant Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beta pehle toh doctor se milkar yeh Nishchint kar lijiye ki yaadi sab theek hai toh kuch sawadhaniyo ka istemal kartey huay aap sex kar sakti hain,Lekin Jab aap tayyar feel karein, ready hon, koi dard ya takleegf mein naa hon… aur yaad rakhiye, ki aap kabhi bhi pregnant ho sakteeh hain. So take precautions. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-after-pregnancy-how-can-i-tell-him-im-not-ready Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ummm! Yadi unsafe sex ke baad bhee periods ho rahe hain toh ismein pregnancy ke chances na ke barabr hai. Phir bhi yadi aap aur safe hona chahtey hain to ek Home pregnancy test kar leejiye aur stithi nischit kar leejiye. Kripya aaj ke baad condom ka nirdharit upyog keejiye. Ise bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Pooja bête unsafe sex ke 10 days baad Home pregnancy test liya jata hai aur iske liye morning urine sample sahi hota hai. Ok? Ise padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/pregnancy/home-pregnancy-tests-dos-and-donts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jee han Raj bête girl bina period hue bhee pregnant ho sakti hai isliye condom ka istemaal anivarya hai. Ise bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/menstruation-myth https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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