Unplanned pregnancy
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अनचाहा गर्भधारण - अब क्या करें?

यदि आप अनचाहे गर्भवती हो जाती हैं तो आपको इस बात का फैसला करना होगा कि क्या करें। आपके सामने दो विकल्प मौजूद होते हैं: गर्भपात या बच्चे को जन्म देना।

आप जो भी फैसला करें, सोच-समझ कर करें। आपकी सहायता के लिए यहां कुछ सुझाव दिए जा रहे हैं।

सुझाव 1
अपने किसी विश्वासपात्र से इस बारे में बात करें। खासकर, किसी ऐसे वयस्क से, जो आपको सलाह और सहयोग दे सके, जैसे कि आपकी मां, मौसी, चाची या कोई मित्र।

सुझाव 2
’यदि आपको उचित और मुनासिब लगे तो अपने माता-पिता को बताएं कि आप गर्भवती हैं।

यदि आप घर में सबके साथ रहती हैं तो यह ज़रूरी है। यदि ज़रूरत पड़े तो उन्हें बताने के लिए किसी की मदद लें। वह परिवार का कोई दूसरा सदस्य या डाक्टर हो सकते हैं।

सुझाव 3
संभावनाओं के बारे में चर्चा करने के लिए डाक्टर के पास जाएं। यदि आप गर्भपात चाहें तो भी आप के पास अभी समय होगा।

आप क्या करना चाहती है?

ऽ क्या आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं?
यदि आप गर्भपात चाहती हैं तो अपने निवास स्थान के अनुसार आप गर्भपात के लिए क्लीनिक या चिकित्सालय जा सकती हैं। इस बारे में आपके डाक्टर सलाह दे सकते हैं।

ऽ क्या आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहती हैं?
हो सकता है कि आप बच्चे को जन्म देना चाहें। यदि आप की शादी नहीं हुई है या किसी स्थायी रिश्ते से नहीं बंधी हैं, तो क्या आप हालात का सामना कर पाएंगी?

आपके जीवन पर यह किस प्रकार असर डालेगा? आपकी शिक्षा पर? क्या आप को पर्याप्त सहयोग प्राप्त है- बच्चे के पिता की ओर से, या आपके परिवार से? क्या आपके पास गुज़ारे के लिए पर्याप्त धन है?

आप अपने बच्चे को किसी को गोद भी दे सकती हैं। फिर भी आपको काफी सोच-समझ कर फैसला करना होगा। आपको नहीं पता कि बच्चे को जन्म देने के बाद जब उसे किसी और को सौंपना होगा तब आपको कैसा लगेगा।

क्या आप इस जानकारी को उपयोगी पाते हैं?

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Isme ajeeb kya hai, beta? Aap pehle mard thode hi hain jisne doosre mard ke saath sex kiya hain. Please be careful, Sex kisi ke bhi saath ho, youn rog se bachne ke liye . HUMESHAA condom use karna hoga.OK? Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mam me pregnet nahi hu mene ye chak be kiya but 2 month hony ko hi mere mc abi tak nahi i me bahot chidchdi se ho gai hu aur paresan be hu mere bf ne doctar se pucha to unhony bola ki ye bahot karno se hota hi tek ho jayga kya ye sahi hi
mam, meri shadi ho chuki hai 9 maah pahle meri bibi pregnent thi tab maine dawa khila kr bachcha gira diya tha, lekin ab mai bachcha chahta hu lekin mc brabar aa rhi hai , kya karu
Bete, hum asha karte hai ki aapne ye doctor ki salaah aur dekh rekh main kiya hoga anyatha iske parinamm ho sakte hain. Agar aisa nahi hai to kripya bina samay gavaay jald se jald ek panjikrit doctor se sampark karein. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Jo ki unsafe sex ke 10 din ke baad liya jata hai. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
hlo mam, mene apni gf k sth bina protection sex kia tha uske periods khtm hone k next day hi bt sperm andr nhi gya tha bahar nikala tha to pregnancy k chance to ni h na???
Mam Mene meri gf k sath kuchh din phle sex kiya but but Mene sperm uske andar nhi dala tha fir bhi uske time aane ki date se aaj 12 din uper ho gye h but Abhi uska time nhi aaya... pls mujhe batayyite vo pregnant to nhi h
mam meri shadi huye 11mahine ho gye h pr mai abhi tak ek bar bhi pregnant nhi huyi hu di huyi tips bhi use ki pr natija nhi mila periods 3-4 din badh jate h fr ho jata h pr blooding km ati thi is bar mai fr 3 din badh kr huyi pr is bar blood bht aaraha h thakke tipe.plz help
mem mene bina condam sex kiya but sprm bhar nikala aur meri gf bolri h ki sayd sprm andr chla gya ho thoda bht hume confirm ni h or meri gf bolri h ki usee chkkr aare h headache hora h body pain hora h to pta kese kre ki wo pregnant h ya ni . wo pregnancy test kregi agr usme positive aaya to kya use 72 hours phele iplil dene pr pregnancy ruknjayegii.. plzzz tell m...
Meri waif ko 2/2/000 priyad thoda aaya tha. Uske baad ni aaya . Maine test kiya to positive hi... Man lo aaj 10/3/oooo hh To aap btaoo kya pregnancy ko ketne din hua. Kya hum isse mita sakte h..... Plz btaooooo......
Mam maina apni gf ka sath 4 bar sexx kiya hai bt mai maina bina condom ka sex kiya aab meri gf bol rahi hai Jo ussa mc late aa raha hai to kya WO pragnant hai agar pragnant hai to usa kaisa roka plz mam help me
Pravakar bete, yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anti ji mai badi musibat mai hu mene apni gf ko do bar sex kiya hai pahle baar mai to mera virya (maal) bahra hi gira diya fir kuch dino baad sex kiya to mera virya (maal) syad thoda sa uske yoni mai gir gya kya uske pet mai bachha ho sakta hai plz help me
Ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mene copper t lagai Hui he 6 mahine se jyada huva he is bat Ko mere husband pricosion use nahi karte mere period 1 April Ko aaye the Abhi tak nahi aaye he mujhe pcod ka prob tha shadi se pehle hamne treatment karvai to mujhe Abhi 2 bachhe he to kya mujhe pregnancy test karvana chahiye ya or rukana chaiye period aane k liye me Abhi ma nahi banana chahti mera baccha sirf 12 mahine ka he kya karu
mam meri gf or main love relationship mai hai . humne prega test kiya Jo negative aaya hai ..period bhi sahi AA raha hai .. fir bhi gf ka pet badta sa lag raha hai. krapya jankari dene ki krap kare
Rahul bete, kyaa aap sure hain ki pregnancy ke chance nahin hain? Yadi isse pehle koi unsafe sex hua hai toh ek pregnancy test lena uchit hoga, phoren yeh kijiye. Saath hee kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se bhi jaldi mill lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Kamlesh bete,yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Hi mam maine 15 ko sex kiya tha without safety aur aaj 11 din ho gye he mere sath kafi ajib felling's ho rahi he mere 4 din baad se sar dard aur kamar dard aur ulti jaisa mn hona chakar aana aur bathroom jada aana piyas jada lag na aur bhokh jada lagna aur emotional ho jati ho jaldi kya ye pregnancy ke symptoms he
Prabhjot bete, yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Don't worry, yeh bahut safe aur simple hain. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mem mera naam mahi hai meri shadi 22/05/17 ko hi hui hai mene apne husband ke saath sex kiya meri period date 25/04/2017 ko thi wo date ho gai thi next date 25/05/17 ki date miss ho gai pregnancy test karne par wo negative dikha raha hai agar pregnant nai Hu to period kyu nai hue kuch bataye
Isme itna dar nahin beta… period late bhi ho jaatye hain.. toh sabse better yeh hoga ki aap kuch roz dekh lijiye aur phir phoren ek doctor ko mil lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mam meney meri gf ko 1 month mai 3- 4 baar bina condom ke sex kiya tha our 1- 2 baar mera viry uski yoni me gir gaya tha to ab aap bataye ki me kya kru ki jissey wo pregnent na ho uskey pet mei bhi kabhi kabhi halka halka dard hota hai please mam koi upay bataye
Ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Don't worry, yeh bahut safe aur simple hain. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mam maine ek week pehle sex kiya h n humne protection b use kiya tha 4 days pehle mujhe periods hone the but nhi hue abi tk kahi m pregnant to nhi plz ans me
Aunty ji maine apni gf ke sath sex kiya bt 2 or 3 mint or uske 2 or 3 ghante baad usko perieds aa gye or ab jis din date ussase 4 din jada ho gya hai to kya wo pregnent ho sakti hai plz bataeye
Ummm! Yadi unsafe sex ke baad bhee unhe periods ho rahe hain toh ismein pregnancy ke chances na ke barabr hai. Yeha padho zara: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex Phir bhi yadi aap aur safe hona chahtey hain to ek Home pregnancy test kar leejiye aur stith nischit kar leejiye. Kripya aaj ke baad condom ka nirdharit upyog keejiye, apne liye aur apni partner ke liye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Maine apne period k 2 din baad apne bf k sath sex kiya bina protection k.lekin uska sparm nhi gya..Kya pragdenciy ka Chance h...kitne din me PTA chal skta h pragdenciy ka...plz tell me
Yaad rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya Phoren kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mam sex krne k 5 din baad piriyad aa gya uske baad 2 mahine ho gye abhi piriyod nhi aaya maine test kit se test krwaya 5 baar sab me nigative aaya mam kya pregnency ho sakti hai
Isme itna dar nahin beta… period late bhi ho jaatye hain.. toh sabse better yeh hoga ki aap kuch roz dekh lijiye aur phir phoren ek doctor ko mil lijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
kal nyt ko gf ke sath sex kiya tha or 4 time sperm uske andr yoni me hi nikla tha. uski period date 18 june h. kya isme pregnet hone ke chance h ? suna h period ke 5-6 din phle pregnet hone ke chance bhut kam hote h. or kya kal sex krne ke bad aj hum home pregnency test kr skte h ? resut to sahi ho kregana plz help me
Ansh beta, ismein pregnancy ke chances ho sakte hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Unsafe sex ke 10 din baad aap ek home test kar sakte hain. Morning urine sample is much better for this. Ok? Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy https://www.fpaindia.org/ Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Maam Maine apne bf k saath bina protection sex ka try kra halaki pura ling andar nhi gya hai bs upar se touch hua hai n sperms bahar giraye hai ka main pregnent ho sakti.hn
Yaad rakhiye chahe ling ka Sirf thode se samay ke liye yoni mein pravesh hua hao, bina condom ke wo unsafe hai kyunki pregnant hone ke liey ek shuranu bhi kaafi hota hai. Ab jaldi se ek home pregnancy test lo ya Phoren kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo, aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Madad ke liye Yeh bhi padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum