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Is masturbation harmful?

By Auntyji Tuesday, September 29, 2015 - 16:38
I’ve been masturbating for many years. Now my penis has become small. I have wet dreams and my semen is also very watery. Will I have a good sex life and children? Prashant (23), Jodhpur.

Auntyji says… Puttar Prashant, you are so pareshaan, so worried, hain puttar? Oh ho, my sense of humour is getting better these days! Hai ki nahin?

Good ole masturbation!

So sabse pehele, tell me, is there any world issue, any world crisis, and problem in the whole cosmos, that you guys don’t blame masturbation for? Kuch bhi ho, masturbation to blame, hain jee? Tsunami aye to masturbation. Dark circles, sleepless nights, poor scores because of masturbation. Climate change, mobility, poor cinema, bad music all point in one direction – masturbation!

Oye, don’t be silly oye, good ole masturbation is not so powerful to move mountains, samjhe? All I am saying is that forget about the idea that masturbation can be harmful. Why do you all seem to think it can cause so many problems? Aisa kya hai masturbation mein?

Size-wise

Let me address your issues one by one. Your small penis size, according to you is a result of masturbation? Aye dasso tussi ki! We walk for miles and kilometres, we rub and clean our nose, we use our hands. So do all feet, hands and noses become weak and small and threaten to reduce in size? Because they are being over-used, nahin na?

Then why do we think that this is going to happen with our dear penis? Ki jee I have over used it, so now it’s shrinking. Can that ever happen, puttar? The size of your penis is ascertained by many factors. How much you masturbate is not one of them, samjhe?

To know more about penis shapes and sizes, watch our video here!

 

Fault in our dreams?

Then the other one,nightfall or wet dreams. Oho beta, if a water tank fills up and there is no outlet, won’t the tank overflow? Exactly the same process happens with your “semen tank.” By the way, one of the ways of outlet from semen tank is apna purana dost, hastmaithun or masturbation.

 

Ek toh someone went and named this very natural phenomenon, swapnadosh. It means fault in our dreams, making men feel that it is some fault. But it is not. It is a very normal, common functioning of the body, samjhe ? Fault in our dreams, asiee koi picture bhi hai na? Is it about SWAPNADOSH? Hahahah, my humor toh... too much!

Doctor in the house?

Ab last and that is weak semen. Bhai, how do you know? If it is thick or watery, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s weak? Are you crajee? Beta, the consistency of semen keeps varying at times. It has no relation to being weak or strong.

Only a certain test can ascertain as to what is the mobility, morbidity and quantity of sperm in each ejaculate. If there is any problem, it is not for you to look and diagnose, samjhe doctor sahib?

So many myths

Actually, I have realised that this is not a boys’ issue alone. Down the ages, we all have presumed that boys know everything! We have also taught boys to behave as if they know everything.

Bas issi mein bechare boys have no one to talk to. No one to check with and are labouring under so many myths about their bodies. So Prashant now become shaant and don’t be pareshan, theek hai puttar?

To protect the author’s privacy, the person in the picture is a model.

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Relax bete! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-top-five-facts-part-1 If you would like to join in on an elaborate discussion on any topic, feel free to join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anti ji main lagbhag 9 saal see hasthmaithun kar raha hoon Ab Meri shaadi ho chuki hai Kya hasthmaithun karma se mere pita ban me me koi dikkat aa sakti hai aur kya main pita ban sakta hoon Plaza answer aunty ji
Bete hastmaithun se prajanan swashthya par koi bura asar nahi hota hai. Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Madam Ji main jab bhi sex karta hu toh 3 se 4 hi Jhatke main h sperm nikal Jata hai jisse mujhe khud se hi sharm aati hi plzz madam koi solution
Beta koi baat nahi, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lijiye- unko time dijiye. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh shighrpatan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I have vwry early premature ejaculation..I ejaculate even when im thinking about my gf... 2 thing...i have very high excitement about sex...even If someone is telling me about his gf & any other girl..My penis will stand up
Yes very possible, very real – can be. The higher the excitement, the higher the desire – higher the chances of early and quick discharge. SO pace yourself – time yourself better – slow down – masturbate before you meet your gf, use a condom… should help a bit. Also some other activities such as gym, running, games, hobbies, may help. Read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rishan bete kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Yeh Jaaiz demand nahin. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain. Is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jee nahi Raju beta aisa nahi hota hai! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Shubham beta hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bita sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rohna bete har kaam mein ek balance toh hona chahiye, taki aap aur anya kaam ko sahi samay par kar payen, hai na?? Bas swasth rahiye aur yaad rakhiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rajesh beta hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bitah sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
vaibhav singh rajput
Tue, 02/15/2022 - 10:37
mujhe hastmaithun kete huye 5 saal hogye , jiski vajah se mujhe kisi bhi chiez mai focus brabari se nhi kr pata hu , mujhe raat ko sex ke bhut khyal aate hai, to mai hastmaithun kr leta hu , mai presan hu apni is bimari se mujhe ise chhodna hai kripya meri sahayta kre.
Vaibhav beta hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bitah sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jee haab bete bilkul ban sakte hain, ismein hastmaithun se koi samasya ki baat nahi hai!! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anti ki kal maine pahli baar mutthi mari thi or aaj mere ling me sujan ho gyi h or jab ling ki khaal niche krta hu to Jame hue khoon ke laal lakir dikh rhi h ne 15 saal ka hu
Bete waise toh hastmaithun se aisa nahi ho sakta hai, lekin agar ling me sujan ho gayi ho aur blood aa gaya ho please ek panjikrit doctor se jaldi mil lijiye. Ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/mens-hygiene Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mam me aapse yeah pouchna chata ho ki me 16 year ka ho me hasthmath karta tha lekin ak mahina hogya na kare mera bhot man karta lekin me khud ko rok leta hu kya me dubara shuru karu ya nahi
Ye nirnay toh aapko lena hai, bete!! Lekin aap ye jaan lijiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Harsh beta hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bita sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Sunil bete hastmaithun ke baad aisa mahsus hona bahut hi common hai. Bas ye jaan lijiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete ise padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/women-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
auntji ma 10 class ma hu aur ma 13 sal ki umar sa muth mar raha hu mana esa chodna ki bhi koshis ki par nahi kar pa raha hu. to mujhe aga koi dikhat to nahi hogi aur mera sperm bilkul pani jasa nikal raha ha.ma abhi 16 sal ka hu.please meri madad kara
Nitin hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samay bitah sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Aur bete virya ka gadha-mota hone se koi sambandh nahi hai zara yeh padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ejaculation lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/male-body/is-masturbation-making-my-semen-watery https://lovematters.in/en/our-bodies/male-body/semen-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beta hastmaithun se ling ke size par koi asar nahi hota hai. Ye jaan lijiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samya bitah sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
aunty ji mai jab 10 saal ka tha thab se muth marrha hu aur aab mai 14 saal ka hogya ho kya app mujhe baata sakthe hai ki ye kaaise chute ga pleaese aunty jiiiiii please kya isse padaai per asar hoga kya ya nhai
Beta Ram har kaam mein ek balance ka hona bahut zaruri hai, taki aapke aur kaam, jaise ki padhayi bhi sahi tarike aur samay se jaari rahe. Aur ye bhi jaan lijiye ki hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hai, jinmein aap samay bita sakte hai. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna   chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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