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Is masturbation harmful?

By Auntyji Tuesday, September 29, 2015 - 16:38
I’ve been masturbating for many years. Now my penis has become small. I have wet dreams and my semen is also very watery. Will I have a good sex life and children? Prashant (23), Jodhpur.

Auntyji says… Puttar Prashant, you are so pareshaan, so worried, hain puttar? Oh ho, my sense of humour is getting better these days! Hai ki nahin?

Good ole masturbation!

So sabse pehele, tell me, is there any world issue, any world crisis, and problem in the whole cosmos, that you guys don’t blame masturbation for? Kuch bhi ho, masturbation to blame, hain jee? Tsunami aye to masturbation. Dark circles, sleepless nights, poor scores because of masturbation. Climate change, mobility, poor cinema, bad music all point in one direction – masturbation!

Oye, don’t be silly oye, good ole masturbation is not so powerful to move mountains, samjhe? All I am saying is that forget about the idea that masturbation can be harmful. Why do you all seem to think it can cause so many problems? Aisa kya hai masturbation mein?

Size-wise

Let me address your issues one by one. Your small penis size, according to you is a result of masturbation? Aye dasso tussi ki! We walk for miles and kilometres, we rub and clean our nose, we use our hands. So do all feet, hands and noses become weak and small and threaten to reduce in size? Because they are being over-used, nahin na?

Then why do we think that this is going to happen with our dear penis? Ki jee I have over used it, so now it’s shrinking. Can that ever happen, puttar? The size of your penis is ascertained by many factors. How much you masturbate is not one of them, samjhe?

To know more about penis shapes and sizes, watch our video here!

 

Fault in our dreams?

Then the other one,nightfall or wet dreams. Oho beta, if a water tank fills up and there is no outlet, won’t the tank overflow? Exactly the same process happens with your “semen tank.” By the way, one of the ways of outlet from semen tank is apna purana dost, hastmaithun or masturbation.

 

Ek toh someone went and named this very natural phenomenon, swapnadosh. It means fault in our dreams, making men feel that it is some fault. But it is not. It is a very normal, common functioning of the body, samjhe ? Fault in our dreams, asiee koi picture bhi hai na? Is it about SWAPNADOSH? Hahahah, my humor toh... too much!

Doctor in the house?

Ab last and that is weak semen. Bhai, how do you know? If it is thick or watery, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s weak? Are you crajee? Beta, the consistency of semen keeps varying at times. It has no relation to being weak or strong.

Only a certain test can ascertain as to what is the mobility, morbidity and quantity of sperm in each ejaculate. If there is any problem, it is not for you to look and diagnose, samjhe doctor sahib?

So many myths

Actually, I have realised that this is not a boys’ issue alone. Down the ages, we all have presumed that boys know everything! We have also taught boys to behave as if they know everything.

Bas issi mein bechare boys have no one to talk to. No one to check with and are labouring under so many myths about their bodies. So Prashant now become shaant and don’t be pareshan, theek hai puttar?

To protect the author’s privacy, the person in the picture is a model.

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Period ke DAURAAN? Tab toh pregnant hone ka chance na ke barabr hai beta.Phir bhi kisi bhi risk ya sankramn se bachne ke liye condom ka isteaml anivarya hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ganun sajeh
Thu, 04/06/2017 - 09:39
I'm addicted to phone sex and i do it daily. It gives me a good pleasure. Sometimes I think I should adopt different strategies to arouse sexual pleasure in my partner. What strategies should I adopt? Also I want to know what should be my partner doing at the time of phone sex? Hoew she gets orgasm? Mine orgasm reaches by rubbing penis. What about hers? Please make me understand.
Ganun bete, it's not possible to tell whether or not and what she does to arouse sexual pleasure. We would suggest you to talk to her about this. Respect her boundaries if she doesn't want to share. Communication is key when it comes to sex of any kind. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Amrit bete, aisa kabhi kabhi hone main koi chinta ki baat nahi hain. but agar ye zyaada toh please iss baare main ek visheshagya ya achchhe panjikrit doctor se consult kijiye. Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Beta yeh infection bhi ho sakta hai aur saaf safai ki kami bhi. Iss skin ko nahate samay halka sa piche kar ke saaf karna hota hai jisse ki waha safai bani rahe, magar essi stithi mein kisi anye samasya aur yon rog se bachne ke liye ek panjikrit doctor se milna aniwarye hai. Aur jyada yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apne aap ko santusht karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities mein samay bitta sakte hai, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies, ok? Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Jaldi aana koi badi baat nahi, dont worry. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aisee stithi mein partner par focus badhaye yani ki foreplay; pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaien karna jo aap niche diye gaye link par jaake padh sakte hai, apne partner kee uttejna badhane ke liye, yeh sab activities karna sabse zaroori hain. Iske elava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle ek baar hastmaithun kar sakte hai, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi aapki iss samasya ko sujhane mein madad kar sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts ! Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bitao. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Kaushal bete, nightfall hona bohot common hai. Yeh koi beemaari nahi jiska ilaaj maujood ho, isse aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga so don't worry. Baaki aap yaha padh lo : https://lovematters.in/hi/term/wet-dreams https://lovematters.in/hi/news/wet-dreams-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
raju kashtriya
Fri, 01/01/2016 - 22:33
Auntyji Mere penis ka jo upr cap hota vo propr bahr ni ata mujhe smjh ni ata esa kiu jb ki vo to sbi ka bahr hi hota.
Iss skin ko nahate samay halka sa piche kar ke saaf karna hota hai jisse ki waha safai bani rahe, yadi essa karne mein koi jyada takleef ya blood aa raha hai toh ek doctor se mil lo iske baare mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Jaldi aana koi badi baat nahi, dont worry. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aisee stithi mein partner par focus badhaye yani ki foreplay; pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaien karna jo aap niche diye gaye link par jaake padh sakte hai, apne partner kee uttejna badhane ke liye, yeh sab activities karna sabse zaroori hain. Iske elava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle ek baar hastmaithun kar sakte hai, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi aapki iss samasya ko sujhane mein madad kar sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hmmm! Bete yeh toh hum nahi bata sakte naa ki unhe iss baat se dikkat hogi ya nahi lekin haan kyun naa aap pure pyaar aur vishwaas ke saath unke saamne yeh baat rakhe. Lekin haan bete khud ko mentally unki HAAN aur NAA dono ke liye tayaar bhi rakhiye. All the best. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
M 8 sal ki umar s masturbate kr rha huu , bt kbhi real sex nhi kiya din m km s km 2 bar masturbate krta hu daily koi prblm toh nhi h n isme.
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apne aap ko santusht karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities mein samay bitta sakte hai, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies, ok? Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Dear Praveen, you are worried about nothing. Relax! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness. But there are many other activities where you can spend or utilize your time such as sports, games or pursue your hobbies. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bitao. Sex activity mein alag-alag tariko ka istemaal karte hue isse kese aur majjedaar banana hai iss baare mein yaha padhe: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Dear aunty, i've been musturbating every night. So, id there any harmful or side effect to my health? Will my sperm going to decrease?
Relax beta! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy oneself. It would neither harm nor cause any illness. But there are many other activities such as sports, games or other hobbies. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/men-masturbating If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask". https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Periods ke dauraan sex mein koi dikatt nahi jab tak dono partners ki isse karne mein barabar ki marzi shaamil ho Lekin yaad rakhiye is dauraan condom ka istemaal anivarya hai taaki kisi bhi sankrman se bachha ja sake. Yeh bhi padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-period https://lovematters.in/hi/news/sex-during-my-period-do-i-need-contraception Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Lucky1988
Wed, 08/24/2016 - 14:00
Auntijo mera har roz Masturbation karne k dil karta hai par aisi fmily k saath rahta ho jaha tv pe hot song bhi aye toh channel change krte hai . Mujhe Masturbation chorna hai iss adaat se kaise bacho . Maine 14hrs duty pe rahta ho lekin jab ghar pe aato tab hi lagta hai Masturbation karna . Pls help
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Aanti mai 10 saal ka tha tab se hastmaithun karta hu ab meri umar 20 saal hai ab mera sarir behut kamjor ho gya hai mai ab hastmaithun karna kEse chodu
Krisna bete, iske liye hastmaithun ko zimmedaar mat maaniye kyunki hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. Jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jiten bete, is baare main aap vistaar se yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/delayed-ejaculation-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Relax bete! Masturbation is a safe way to satisfy yourself. It would do no harm nor any illness. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/hi/our-bodies/is-masturbation-unhealthy https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/ways-to-make-love/masturbation-top-five-facts-part-1 If you would like to join in on an elaborate discussion on any topic, feel free to join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anti ji main lagbhag 9 saal see hasthmaithun kar raha hoon Ab Meri shaadi ho chuki hai Kya hasthmaithun karma se mere pita ban me me koi dikkat aa sakti hai aur kya main pita ban sakta hoon Plaza answer aunty ji
Bete hastmaithun se prajanan swashthya par koi bura asar nahi hota hai. Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Madam Ji main jab bhi sex karta hu toh 3 se 4 hi Jhatke main h sperm nikal Jata hai jisse mujhe khud se hi sharm aati hi plzz madam koi solution
Beta koi baat nahi, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lijiye- unko time dijiye. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh shighrpatan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik ho sakti hai. Aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hastmaithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge kum karne mein madadgaar saabit ho sakta hai. Yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
I have vwry early premature ejaculation..I ejaculate even when im thinking about my gf... 2 thing...i have very high excitement about sex...even If someone is telling me about his gf & any other girl..My penis will stand up
Yes very possible, very real – can be. The higher the excitement, the higher the desire – higher the chances of early and quick discharge. SO pace yourself – time yourself better – slow down – masturbate before you meet your gf, use a condom… should help a bit. Also some other activities such as gym, running, games, hobbies, may help. Read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts https://lovematters.in/hi/making-love/sex-problems-how-to-overcome-them/i-ejaculate-too-soon-help If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Rishan bete kisi bhi sexual activity mein ek cheez bohot hi important hai woh hai dono logo ki sehmati. Yadi woh abhi is baat ke liye sehmat nahi hain toh aap bhi force mat kijiye. Yeh Jaaiz demand nahin. Aur bhi activities hai jo aap try kar sakte hain. Is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/meeting-someone/saying-no https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Jee nahi Raju beta aisa nahi hota hai! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yeh bhee padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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