Female anus: Read before anal sex

The anus is the opening of your bowel - where the stool comes out.

The anus is sensitive, which is why some people include it in their lovemaking.

You can stroke your partner’s anus when you make love, or your own when you masturbate. It can also feel nice if your anus is licked. Some people like having a penis or fingers inside their anus. This is called anal sex.

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If you would like to include anal sex in your lovemaking, wash your anus with mild soap and water first. Some people also prefer to take an enema or laxative suppository before having anal sex to clean out the bowels, so their partner doesn’t get stool on their penis or finger. Read more about anal sex here.

Infection

If you’re a woman, make sure you don’t touch your anus and then your vagina. Bacteria from the bowel region can get inside the vagina, causing a bladder infection. If your partner is performing anal sex, make sure he knows not to take his penis out of your anus and put it straight into your vagina. This too can spread the bacteria.

Anal sex can also lead to spread of sexually transmitted infections, if one of the partner is already infected or carrying the virus responsible for the infection. So to prevent STIs, it is important to wear a condom and be certain of your partner’s STI status.

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Beta guda maithun main pregnancy ke chances na ke barabar hote hai magar kisi bhi youn sankraman se bachne ke liye aur safai ke nazariye se behtar hoga ki condoms ka istemaal karein. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/anal-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

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There is no possibility to get pregnant through anal sex, don’t worry! But for cleanliness sake it is recommended that you use a condom. http://lovematters.in/en/resource/anal-sex If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum

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Romi bete, number ki suvidha toh uplabdh nahi hai. Lekin aapki jo bhi samsya hai woh aap hamein yaha anonymously likh sakte hain. Hum aapki samsya suljhane ki puri koshish karenge. Yadi aapke man mein koi bhee aur sawaal hain aur aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board ‘Just Poocho’ mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

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More inaccuracies. Anal sex does not automatically transmit an STD in the vagina just by going from the anus to the vagina. Bladder infection yes, but not the infections we recognize as traditional STDs, i.e. gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, etc. Those pathogens have NOTHING to do with anal>vaginal sex, or going from one hole to the other. If they were present in the man BEFORE SEXUAL CONTACT WITH THE WOMAN, then they can be transmitted, no matter what hole was penetrated. The way you have it worded here is very misleading and not factual. Without a preexisting infection, anal to vaginal sex can really only cause a bacterial UTI from the e.coli or a very nasty vaginal infection known as BV, or bacterial vaginitis. These things can easily be avoided by being clean and using the body parts only in the place they were designed to be used!

Dear PJ, Thank you for sharing your feedback. We agree that STIs can only be transferred from one person to another during sexual activity (anal or otherwise) only if the infection is previously present in one of the partners. We take your feedback and have corrected the paragraph accordingly.