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How to flirt – proved by research

Meeting someone
What's the best way to flirt? Science comes through again with tips to get that cute guy’s attention. Flirting technique matters more than looks, research shows.

Nine years, zero orgasms

Love and relationships
It is very common for women to not orgasm via penetrative sex. Is that stressing you out as well? We speak to a young woman, who missed out on the big O for nine long years, and how she finally ended the drought.

Porn and relationships: The X-rated debate

Porn
A new study by the University of New Brunswick, which looks at the impact of porn on both men and women, has found that watching porn can be detrimental to people’s sex lives. Is porn really all that bad? We spoke to five young Indians to see what’s their experience been like.

My gf is getting married. What should I do?

Breaking up
Hi Auntyji, my girlfriend is getting married. I am devastated and can’t believe it is actually happening. What can I do? Ashutosh, 23, Allahabad.

My first sex happened on Christmas but...

Making Love
First time sex ought to be special, they say. For Tina, it happened when she was still at school, on a romantic Christmas night at a friend’s place. Yet all she remembers is regret and embarrassment. What went wrong?

Casual sex and regret: the man-woman difference

Love and relationships
​​​​​​​Have you ever regretted a one-night stand? Your answer is likely to depend – at least in part – on whether you’re a man or woman, research shows.

How to make up so you don’t break up

Relationship problems
What’s the best way to make up after a fight? That depends – at least in part – on whether your partner’s a guy or girl, according to recent US research.

How can I ask my bf to give me orgasms?

Orgasms
Hi Auntyji, my boyfriend seems disinterested in working towards my orgasms. He says it's too time consuming! I feel a little let down... what can I do? Divya, 23 years, Kolkata.