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She smells bad – should I dump her?

Relationship problems
My girlfriend hates to shower. She smells bad, really bad. Sometimes she doesn't shower for as many as three days. I don't like getting intimate because she's so messy. Now she's upset and says I'm avoiding her. I'm really confused, Auntyji. Please help me. Virat (24), DelhiThis is becoming a big problem in our relationship – I wonder if I should break up with her. Virat (24), Delhi

'Divorced because I'm dark'

Marriage troubles
“We were happily married until Amit was mocked because of my dark skin colour,” says Mira. “All our fights would boil down to my complexion.”

Telling others you're HIV+: do's and don'ts

STDs/STIs
If you’re HIV-positive, it can be very scary to open up to others and tell them you’re carrying a life-threatening virus.

Meeting the parents: do's and don'ts

Thinking about Marriage
You thought nothing is scarier than asking someone out? Think again. Something even scarier is coming your way. Meeting the parents.

Sex and the internet: young Mumbai women online

Meeting someone
Surfing the web in secret to find out about emergency contraception? Or maybe you’ve just uploaded a new sexy profile pic on Facebook and you’re counting how many likes you get?

Should I keep comforting my ex?

Breaking up
Q: Auntyji, I broke up with my boyfriend about five months ago but we still spend a lot of time together, mainly helping him get over our relationship. He feels lonely if I exclude him from my plans.

Abusive text messages could affect your health

Sexual Harassment
Dating violence doesn’t have to be physical or sexual for it to have serious consequences on your health, new research shows. Whether it’s abusive text messages, insulting comments, or a partner who harasses you, non-physical dating violence is no joke. It also is a form of domestic violence.

He doesn’t turn me on any more – so what?

Married Life
“I’ve been in a relationship with S for five years. I’m not attracted to him anymore,” says Anu. But that doesn’t mean the end of the road. For her sexual attraction isn’t the only thing that a relationship is built on.