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Gay, lesbian and Bisexual

Everyone has a sexual orientation. Who do you feel sexually, romantically and emotionally attracted to?

If you’re attracted to people of the opposite sex, it’s called being straight (heterosexual). If you’re attracted to people of the same sex, it’s called being gay (homosexual).

Gay is a general term for men and women who are attracted to their own sex, but often used to describe men who like other men. A lesbian is a gay woman. If you’re attracted to both women and men, you’re probably bisexual. If you feel little or no sexual attraction to anyone, you could be asexual.

For many people, sexuality is more of a sliding scale than simply ‘straight or gay’. You can be attracted to someone of the same sex even though you don’t identify as gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Perhaps you’re a woman who usually likes men, but you find yourself feeling attracted to another woman. That doesn’t mean you’re a lesbian. Your sexual orientation is the overall pattern of sexual and romantic attraction that you experience throughout your life.

Sexuality is complicated. You can’t choose your sexual orientation, but you can learn to understand it.

More articles on sexual orientation:

Confused about my sexuality

Can gays turn straight?

Gay cure trauma

Comments

I am 16 year old. I only like the naked boys.and I want to sleep with naked teenagers boys.and I wanted to suck boys penis. And my ass want a teenagers penis for sex. Am I guy or not please tell me
Md Arshad
Thu, 12/10/2015 - 16:46

Hello anty g meri age 18 years hai aur Mai 3-4 saal se hastmathun kar raha Hu jisse mera Lund thoda tedha ho gya hai aur mera sperm bhi gadha hai aur 5-6 jhatke Mai hi khatam ho jata hai aur ab Mai hastmathun karna nahi chahta Hu pls koi Rasta batao

Chutkara paane ka ek hee tareeka hai- apne aap yeh karna rok lo... iski koi dawa nahin. Wasie toh hastmaithun apne aap mein koi problem nahin karta yadi chodna hee hai toh iske baare mein sochna band karo... Lekin jaise kaha, aadat choot jaye toh theek , na ruke , toh bhi koi baat nahin. Yeh ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Aur Ling ke size mein ek apna teda pann hona is quite common bete don't worry isse koi samsya hoti nahin hai.Yeh padhiye zara: http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc

Sabse pehele toh beta aap dono ko tayayr hona hai aur dono ko razamand.Kya who bhi iss mein ready hain? If yes toh theek hai. Phir bhi bette ryeh hoga ki aap dono ek dossre ko thoda uar jaan lein aur uske baad hee sex mein aayein. Isme koi jaldi toh hai nhin, bahut waqt hai aur jo bhi kadam aap aaj uthayenge, wo zindigi bhar aapki yaadgaae ban ke rahega, so job hi karein, soch samjhe ke. Yeh link bhi padh leejiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts

So isme bura hee kya hai? Aap pehle mard thodi na hai jo aisa mehsoos karte hain. Bas beta be careful Humesha – HUMESHAA condom use karna hoga aur rishta- yaani ki roohani, ya romantic wahan hee banao jahan aapko confidence ho ki isko galat nahin samjha mana jayega. Aap akele nahin, apne jaise aur bhi log ya sansthan dhoondo- aapke sheher mei zaroor hongee!! Relax !!

Bete aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

Hmmm! Bina condom ke sex karna apne aap mein ek safe idea bilkul bhee nahi hai. Isse kai youn rog hone kaa khatra ho sakta hai. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/stds http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex

I am happily married. Rocking sex life.pretty wife. I have been toying with the idea of getting pegged by my wife using a strap on dildo. I am not attracted to guys and would not want a guy to do it. My wife thinks I may be a closet bisexual. At times I have looked at nude males on internet but that is primarily to compare my package. What does this make me?

It not uncommon for some hetrosexual men to have thoughts and interests about other men. Been curious to know what your friend at the gym looks like while in the shower? - it's just curiosity. the strap on - I know many married couples where the man wants to experience penetration and the feeling of prostate massage (very nice) And having your wife rim you is a whole new level - try it some time Curiosity is healthy - Maybe Hetro-curious may suit you?

Bete yadi yeh sex unsafe tha toh yes ismein pregnancy ke chances ho skate hain. Iske liye phoren ek home pregnancy test lijiye. Phir kisi vishagya ya achche panjikrit doctor se milo aur dekho kya ho sakta hai. Iske illava aap FPAI clinic se bhee sampark kar sakety hai jiski jaankari aaapko iski website pe mil jayegi. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/unplanned-pregnancy http://www.fpaindia.org/

My panis size is 3.5 what I I have to do for increase size.during sex pragnent problem will occur ...or what ...so please suggest some good idea..

It's not possible to increase the size of your penis. For correct information about penis size. Read this: https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes https://lovematters.in/en/news/penis-top-five-facts Also read this: https://lovematters.in/en/news/worried-your-penis-too-small https://lovematters.in/en/news/what-women-penis If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
shailendra
Wed, 05/18/2016 - 10:23

namaste ji one of my friend (male, 40 year) need a true friend/partner for homosex. can i get any kind of help?

Okay! Suniye ladka ya ladki peda karna na apke hath mein hai na apki wife ke. Aur na hi iska koi special upaye hai ki who hum apko bata sake. Aur bete aaj ke progressive time mein ladka-ladki dono barabr hi hain, yeh baat toh aap kitne radio, tv advertisement mein toh sun hi chuke honge. Isliye is baat ka chintan bhi kijiye. Aur ek swasth aur healthy baby chahe wo ladka ho ya ladki ki umeed kijiye.

Beta jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur bête Yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts

ling ka tayyar na hona toh kahin aap kisi tention, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karnay ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction

Beta , aap sahi kiss nazar se keh rahee hain? Ki kya yeh koi beemari karta hai, so nahin. Lekin kya yeh aapko sahi lagta hai, sawaal yeh hai, yadi nahin toh mana kar deejiye aur unhe samjha deejiye ki aapko yeh theek nahin lag raha. Saath hee saath yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki yadi mooh mei choot bhi jaye toh aap turant use baahr thook dein, andear lene ki koi zaroorat nahin. Mukh maithun ka eke hen pehlu hai atyant saaf safai – dono partners keliye, iska dhyaan rakhiye. All the best beta. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0

Yeh toh bahut hee common baat hai Sex ki bhavna yadi adhik ho to yeh hona bahut hee common hai. Haan yeh toh zaroor hai ki yadi app HAR mahila ya ladki se koi bhi baat karety waqt uttejit ho jaaatey hain so shayad aapka nazariya mahiloun ke prti bahut eke k tarfaa hai… isme toh sudhaar laana hee chahiye. Har mahila sex ki vastu bilkul nahi!

Arre bhai, ling ko apnea am stithi pe bhi to waapis aana hai na? Isme lagbhag 45 mins se1 hour lag sakta hai, ya zyada ya kum. Yeh bohot common hain, so don't worry! Yeh link padh leejiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love

That is a very sad situation beta, but don’t worry. The thing is perhaps you need to ask her about what she likes and enjoys in sex… what is she missing and what she wants in sex. The other thing is you may want to check how comfortable she is how relaxed and is she has any fears around having sex. Also ensure she has no infection or discomfort in and around her vagina, which could also be the problem. Get to know her body better, talk to her and find out what she is looking for. I hope this helps. https://lovematters.in/en/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence

Bete waise toh pregnancy ke liye ek shukranu hee bahut kaafi ho skata hai. Aur periods ke duran toh pregnant hone ka chance na ke barabr hai beta. Acha Jaldi pregnancy ke tips yaha pahdiye: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/tips

Bête is skin ko nahataye samaye halkaye se pichay kar ke saaf karna hota hai jissey ki waha saafai bani raheye, yadi aisaye kartaye mein koi jyda takleef ya blood araaha hai toh ek doctor se mill lo iskaye baaraye mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis

Hmmm! Bete samsya kya hai? Please apna sawal thoda vistar mein puchiye. Saath hee Yadi aap kisi mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Bete, wo part bohot dry hota hai jiksey liey koi chiknai Jaise KY jelly ka istemal kiya ja sakta hai ya chikanai yukt condom bhi use kar saktay hai, yadi condom ka istemal kiya jaey to koi side effect nahi hai. https://lovematters.in/en/news/homosexuality-top-five-facts Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Bête Pehli baar sex kartaye samaye kya karna hai kya nahi karna hai, aur first sex ko kese theek tarah se kiya jaye is bare mein aap yaha detail mein padh lijieye : https://lovematters.in/hi/news/first-time-sex-top-five-facts Saath hi sex activity mein alag-alag tariko ka istemal kartay huay isse kese aur mazzedaar banana hai is baaray mein yaha padhein: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ways-make-love https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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