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Will avoiding sex make my sperm stronger?

By Auntyji Tuesday, April 12, 2016 - 19:25
Auntyji, my wife and I want to have a child soon. Should I avoid sex or masturbation to preserve my sperm? Please advise. Atik (25), Agra.

Auntyji says… Oho… Atik beta, is this some bank account you are holding on to save for a rainy day? Oye nahin oye, read on puttar.

Savings account

So betajee, who exactly or what is your source of information? Has someone told you that you need to conserve and preserve semen to get your wife pregnant? Money and savings maybe, semen and sperm not really!

So let’s begin with first things first – trying to get pregnant. Now that has got to be the most legit reason for having a lot of fun sex, a lot of times, in many ways and styles. As you know perhaps, what comes out is actually semen. Semen contains sperm along with other contents. Sperm is essential for getting her pregnant.

Quality over quantity

The good news is we don’t need mass, we need class. Matlab ki good kind of sperm. Yaani ki these little chaps have to be good swimmers. They have to make a dash for it and get ahead in the race of joining up with the ova (or the egg in the woman’s uterus). They have to be over achievers, you can say, with a will to do the job!

Now for this, we need a certain number, but we don’t need all of them. We just need a few with high potential, as explained above. Attention gentlemen who are good in the plumbing department! No cause for alarm? Well then you are ready too!

Atik puttar, don’t worry about how much and what color and consistency. One can’t tell by looking at semen whether the ingredients are okay or not. That we will discover by and by.

Sort out your dates

Now, go and get her dates right. The lady needs to have a reliable menstrual cycle. Every month, the periods show up, preferably on the same dates or around it. Check for that, at least for three to six months. If you have her dates right, you will be able to ascertain her fertility dates. That can be a good guide to when the chances of a woman conceiving are higher. Not sure shot, but higher.

Have you folks been on any oral contraceptives pills or have you used a Copper T… in her body of course? Any of this? Just checking, because sometimes with prolonged use of contraceptives such as these, it may take some more time for fertility to return.

Sex baar-baar

Bottom line, no need to save up now? Just have regular sex during her fertile days. Dude, have all the sex you both want, just make sure all the ejaculation happens inside her. Kya pata kiss baar mein hero nikal aaye?

Iske illava, sex, sex and sex is the buzz word. Stay happy and relaxed, eat well, romance and have a lovely time making the love of your life, your baby. Don’t stress at all dude, neither you nor her, nor your in-laws or padosis. Everybody chill.

Beta, sometimes it takes longer than usual to conceive. Let that not be a cause of concern. Usually, it is said, if you have been trying for over eighteen months and still you don’t conceive, you should see a doctor. Usse pehle, no need for panic. Aayegaa aane waala… aayegaa, aayegaa…

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Comments
aunty g..namaskar mein ek boy hoon...19saal ka..kya baar baar hasta maithun..kar ne se dugle patle ho jate hain...mastrubt ka prabhv se body dugla ho jata hai kya i min thin...plz ans me...
Asad beta, relax! Aisa kuchh nahi hota hain. Hastmaithun ek safe/surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jinmein aap samya bitaa sakte hain. jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? Yeh bhi padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating https://lovematters.in/en/news/i-could-masturbate-anytime-anywhere Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
abid hasmi
Thu, 04/14/2016 - 12:46
Anty ji mai ek ladki se pyar karta hun hum dono ek dusre se bahot pyar karte hain mai usse sex karna chata hun jab mai usse ye baat bolta hun woh haan bol deti hai lekin jab samne ati hai to bolti hai nhi aisa kuch bhi nhi karungi
Abid beta, aapki baaton se lagta hain ki woh abhi taiyaar nahi hain. Ho sakta hai unhe koi darr ho ya doubt, yeh bhi ki woh pregnancy se darti ho ya society se? Sex ke liye dono partners ki manzoori anivarya hain. Agar aapki girlfriend nahi karna chahti hai to aap kuchh mat kijiye aur sahi samay aane ka intezaar kijiye jab wo khud sehmati dikhaye sex ke liye. Kyunki kisi bhi rishte mein zabardasti acceptable nahi hai . inn baton se dhyan hatiye aur apne rishtey ko aur majbut banaiye https://lovematters.in/en/news/how-can-i-convince-her-have-sex Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Physic se? Ji, nahi. Yeh janne ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai siwaye iske ki woh swayem apko yeh bateyin. Lekin pyar ka sabse eham pehlu hai vishwash aap woh rakhiye apne mann mein, aur apne rishte ko majbut baniye. Apne mann se doubt clear kijiye aur yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Harsh Sahu
Sat, 04/16/2016 - 10:46
I am harsh 20 years old .....Auntyji my problem is....the time when my penis not get inlarged ..I can see my sensitive part in whole by pushing the foreskin backward but when my penis got enlarged then it becomes very tight Nd I am unable to see the whole thing Nd also pushing the foreskin down becomes very hard for me Nd as the whole thing becomes too tight I cannot see the sensitive part in whole Nd cannot pull it completely back so what's ye problem in it means when I can see the complete thing when my penis got enlarged
First tell me, does the foreskin never go back... do you feel it is stuck or is it very tight? You may be aware that a sticky substance called smegma gets accumulated under the forskin which must be cleaned while bathing... is it that? if yes please clean yourslef gently but daily. But if it is not that and actually the foreskin is too tight causing pain during erection, then Puttarji, you have to see a doctor... do it soon, the earlier the better. It may require a small cut, nothing to be afraid off, its a very simple and small , quick procedure. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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