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I come when we kiss – what should I do?

Submitted by Auntyji on Tue, 05/01/2012 - 16:22
When I make out with my girlfriend, I end up ejaculating. What can I do about it? I'm 22 years old, and I'm not interested in having sex until I'm married. Our making out doesn't really involve anything sexual, mostly just kissing. Karan, 18, Mumbai

What can I do about it?

The best suggestion I can give you, puttar, is to be less hard on yourself. As you kids like to say, pun very much unintended (tee-tee-hee). Achcha, jokes apart, you need to stop worrying about it because it will eventually become more controllable. There is not much you can do to control it, but as you move forward, your body will understand your needs and ejaculation will not happen this sporadically.

The second and most important advice I can give you is to simply go out and masturbate. Yes puttar, you heard me right, go ahead and pleasure yourself. It’s good for you. And it just might help you see things clearer.

Masturbation is the activity of pleasuring yourself using your own hand, as I am sure you know. The advantage of masturbation is that it’s perfectly safe and extremely pleasurable. It’s completely natural to masturbate, and it will also give you more control over your ejaculation problem. You won’t have all that stored-up sperm just waiting to gush out at the slightest stimulation!

At the end of this, betaji, I just want to say, sit back, have a glass of thanda Rooh Afza and relax. It will be better soon!

To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed. 

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What can I do about it?

The best suggestion I can give you, puttar, is to be less hard on yourself. As you kids like to say, pun very much unintended (tee-tee-hee). Achcha, jokes apart, you need to stop worrying about it because it will eventually become more controllable. There is not much you can do to control it, but as you move forward, your body will understand your needs and ejaculation will not happen this sporadically.

The second and most important advice I can give you is to simply go out and masturbate. Yes puttar, you heard me right, go ahead and pleasure yourself. It’s good for you. And it just might help you see things clearer.

Masturbation is the activity of pleasuring yourself using your own hand, as I am sure you know. The advantage of masturbation is that it’s perfectly safe and extremely pleasurable. It’s completely natural to masturbate, and it will also give you more control over your ejaculation problem. You won’t have all that stored-up sperm just waiting to gush out at the slightest stimulation!

At the end of this, betaji, I just want to say, sit back, have a glass of thanda Rooh Afza and relax. It will be better soon!

To protect the identity, the person in the picture is a model and names have been changed. 

Have a similar story? Share with Love Matters (LM) on our Facebook page. If you have a specific question, please ask LM experts on our discussion forum. We are also on Instagram, YouTube and Twitter.