Moving in together is a big step for a couple to take. You’re head over heels in love, and living together may be the best thing that could happen to you. Or not! So here are our tips for live-in love.
Namitha has been living with her German boyfriend for over two years. “It's been hard, to say the least. And that's not because of our relationship, but because what other people have to say about our relationship!” she says.
“I felt dirty about myself,” says Atreyi, “I found it extremely hard to believe that I, of all people, was capable of fantasising about my uncle.” Guilt did not let Atreyi behave normally, until she talked it out.
“I’ve been in a relationship with S for five years. I’m not attracted to him anymore,” says Anu. But that doesn’t mean the end of the road. For her sexual attraction isn’t the only thing that a relationship is built on.
Q: My boyfriend is out of the country for work. He wants me to send him nude pictures of me. He says he misses me and wants to be with me in any way possible, so this request.
“My boyfriend is ten years older than me and I wish people could understand that we're not together because I have 'daddy issues'”. Naureen was 24 when she started dating S. Three years on, their relationship is still going strong.
Q: My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months. Since a few days, we've been talking about having sex. We really want to do it, but I don't know how to have sex and I'm also scared of getting pregnant.
When two people are in love, their heartbeats and breathing become synchronised when they’re together, new research shows. We know that lovers can be in tune emotionally, but this is the first research to show that synchronicity can be physical too.