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Auntyji, what if I'm pregnant?

Unsure about being pregnant?
Auntyji, I could be pregnant. I didn't even want to have sex that day, but he was so persistent. I don’t know how it happened. What if it's true? I feel I have some early signs of pregnancy too! My family will kill me and I'll kill myself. Babita (19), Faridabad.

My dad on sex: kissing = pregnancy

Making Love
My parents are Indian but I was born and raised in Canada. When I was 16, I wanted to go out on my first date. I asked my dad if I could go for a matinee movie with a boy – he said no. He said, “Holding hands leads to kissing, leads to pregnancy!”

Why falling in love makes you stupid

Love and relationships
Passionate love at the start of a relationship can actually impair our thinking. And the more in love we are, the worse it’s likely to be.

She won't let me touch her – is she not a virgin?

Virginity
Auntyji, I love my girlfriend and she loves me too. But when I try to get close to her she doesn't let me touch her, especially near her vagina. Is that because she's not a virgin?

Online dating: do's and don'ts

Meeting someone
As it becomes more and more difficult to meet people the old fashioned way your search for the girl or boy of your dreams might just lead you to the new and exciting world of online dating. Keep our list of dos and don’ts handy if you’re planning to take the plunge.

My younger brother is watching porn

Porn
Auntyji, I recently found out that my 11-year-old brother has been watching porn on the computer. We share the same laptop and I found porn sites in the browser history. Is it normal? How should I deal with the situation? – Aarti (19), Bangalore.

Long-distance relationships: do's and don'ts

Happy relationships
'Distance makes the heart grow fonder.' But is that really true? Long-distance relationships are hard work and take lots of commitment. But don't worry. Stick to some do's and don'ts and you will see where love takes you.

My failed lesbian love story

Sexual Orientation
“If we elope, we will be hunted down and beaten. We might love each other but our community will not understand this love,” says Kamini. From rural Haryana, Kamini and her lesbian partner had no choice but to give up their love and marry men.