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My BF wants to copy porn sex – what should I do?

Porn
These days my boyfriend has a new bug – he wants us to try stuff from porn films he watches. I am not sure I want to “copy” blue films, is it even possible?! Help me, I don’t want to lose my love over sex! Sonu (24), Secunderabad.

BDSM: Do’s and don’ts

Ways to Make Love
Rearing to try BDSM (Bondage, discipline (or domination), sadism, and masochism (as a type of sexual practice) in the bedroom but don’t know where to start? Love Matters has some guidelines on the erotic practice.

Is testosterone the reason you love spicy food?

Our Bodies
Why do some people love spicy food while others can’t bear the burn? It could be a question of testosterone for those men who like it hot.

My ex now says he has HIV – am I infected?

STDs/STIs
My ex-boyfriend just told me that he may be HIV+. He said he was at risk before he met me. Now he wants to take a test. I should too, right? I am so worried, angry, confused and frankly a little afraid as well. SG (27), Delhi.

How to overcome premature ejaculation

Sex Problems: how to overcome them
Love to make love and want more of it when you get it? If you find yourself climaxing just as the party gets started, here are some tips that will have you going stronger for longer.

Science reveals the sexiest dance moves

Meeting someone
Why do women find Hrithik Roshan and Ranbir Kapoor so hot? It’s probably not just the looks, but also their cool dance moves. Science reveals what makes some guys better dancers than others.

The most harrowing rickshaw ride

Sexual Harassment
“Delhi autowallahs are known for their nakhras. But you couldn’t possibly imagine what happened to me that day on a ride to Lajpat Nagar,” says Anu.

What you need to know about sex in long-term relationships

Love and relationships
Will my sex life be better or worse if I'm in a committed relationship? As with so many things relating to sex, there is no straight answer, unfortunately. The good thing is: if you happen to be in a relationship with mediocre sex, there are things you can do. Check out the facts!