Being in a relationship
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Being in a relationship

A relationship can mean different things to different people. Some want to spend a lot of time doing things together with their partners, some want to share their living space, others want to be married to their loved ones, while some others find it comfortable to maintain a relationship over long distance.

If you are in love with someone, the next logical step might be to find out if they feel the same way about you. Often you can guess whether someone is interested. If you’re not sure, be brave! Try to get into a situation where you’ve got a chance to talk to the person. If you have mutual friends, let them introduce you. You could also send them a text message or try to make contact on chat – though if they don’t answer, don’t pester them. If you notice they’re not really responding or they’re even trying to avoid you, there’s a good chance they don’t return your feelings.

Bear in mind, however, that there’s an extra tricky puzzle in the love game: some people can be standoffish even if they’re really attracted to you, because they don’t know how to cope with their feelings! Or maybe they feel they shouldn’t be responding to your advances even if they’d like to. So don’t immediately think someone isn’t interested in you because they don’t respond straight away.

But some guys have the idea – often picked up from movies – that if you keep hassling a woman long enough she will give in to you. People might tell you that if a girl says no or even gets upset or angry, you should ignore it and not give up. This is a fantasy – if someone reacts like this to your advances, you’re just being abusive.
If you get a clear no, be respectful. Move on and leave the person alone.

If you are in love with someone, the next logical step might be to find out if they feel the same way about you. Often you can guess whether someone is interested. If you’re not sure, be brave! Try to get into a situation where you’ve got a chance to talk to the person. If you have mutual friends, let them introduce you. You could also send them a text message or try to make contact on chat – though if they don’t answer, don’t pester them. If you notice they’re not really responding or they’re even trying to avoid you, there’s a good chance they don’t return your feelings.

Bear in mind, however, that there’s an extra tricky puzzle in the love game: some people can be standoffish even if they’re really attracted to you, because they don’t know how to cope with their feelings! Or maybe they feel they shouldn’t be responding to your advances even if they’d like to. So don’t immediately think someone isn’t interested in you because they don’t respond straight away.

But some guys have the idea – often picked up from movies – that if you keep hassling a woman long enough she will give in to you. People might tell you that if a girl says no or even gets upset or angry, you should ignore it and not give up. This is a fantasy – if someone reacts like this to your advances, you’re just being abusive.
If you get a clear no, be respectful. Move on and leave the person alone.

Comments

Antiji,kch din phle mne ek ldki(risha) ko propose mara tha,chocklate...wgera deke...(mne use bs de di nd kha k wese hi de ra hu becos usne resn pucha that)..hm dono class m ek dusre ko dekhte rhte the , ankh bi marti thi wo mje)nd usi din mene ek dosri ldki ko bi choklate di thi bt nt for proposng..par kya hua k unhone smj liya k mene ek hi choclate se dono ka kaam chlaya h nd undono ne mje fswa diya..nd mne jise propose k lye di thi ,phle ki trah hi ab m jb bi uski traf dekta hu toh wo iritate ni hti and kbhi kbi wo bi dkhne lg jati h mri traf bt bat ni krti,does she like me at ts stage..or kya mje usse bat krni chye k i was nt cheated her...antiji pls help me.pls pls ..u cn email me to [email protected] ..pls pls pls

Bete apki batein kuch jyada achhe se smajh nahi aayi mujhay lekin yeh samjh aya hai ki apki friend ek galatfehmi ka shikar hui hain. toh bete unse ek baar is vishey mein baat kijiye aur yadi woh abhi gusse mein hain toh thoda samye dijiye unko bhi aur khud ko bhi.

Pooja bitiya sex tab tak galat nahi hai jab tak ki usmein koi zabradasti, ya violence na ho aap samjh rahin hain na jaise ki sirf apne pyar ko sabit karne ke liye yadi sex karoge toh who galat hai bête aur SAFE SEX yeh behad zaruri hai yaani poori samjhdaari aur safety ke sath kiya gaya sex. Okay bête!

Bete jay! Aapki partner ka kya kehna hai is par ab? Is baat ko toh aap dono hee sudhaar saktey hain.. baat cheet kar ke, charcha kar ke. Lekin bete Jab ek rishta ek makaam taka a ke ruk jaata hai, toh use phir shuru karna ya us per hee tike rehana shayed itnee samjhdaari nahin. AAge badho, naye kadam uthao, naye aur purane dost dhoondho, films, music, koi hobbies. Jaise ki unhone keeya hai. yeh khush hone ka drama rehne do, apni zindigi jeene mein utar aao. All the best.

Batao!! Iska koi formula hota hai kya? Arre nahin bhai. Dost banao, dosti ke liye na ki patane ke liye, phir dekho kya baat banti hai. Zara soch khulli karo!! Apna look theek thaak karo, saaf suthre to dikho... koi badbudaar nahin!! Aur alag alag baaton mein dilchaspi rakho aur dikhao!! Samjhe, Mr formula?!! https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-do-i-get-girlfriend Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Ji nahi, Harjit bete! Pregnant hone ke liye purush ke shukranu ko mahila ki yoni mein jakar dimb ko nishechit karna bohot zaruri hai. jo ki sirf Yoni Maitun ke dwara ho sakta hai. Zara yeh padho: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum

Arre, yadi koi humaare saath nahin rehana chahtey toh kyaa hum unhe force kar saktey hain? Nhain na?!! dekho bete Yadi who aapke saath rehna chahtey hain so unhe yeh nirnay lena hai, aap unse sirf isliye haan nahi karwa sakte kyunki kewal aap unhe pyar karte hain. Thoda shaant raho aur apna chintan swasth karo. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/love-and-relationships
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