Who can tell beta!! may be he is going through some phase - may be the intimacy has reduced for him - and may be he is just a different man - why don't you talk to him about it? How is your relationship faring otherwise? Are you both, ""over the affair"" These things can be very tricky and time consuming and of course, may change you both for ever. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum