Oh! Listen Jackie your hubby is misbehaving with you, then you will have to clear his doubt, because the only way one can make out or guess is if the hymen has broken, which can be for any reason actually - hymen can be torn or stretched in lots of ways without having any kind of sex, or any Sports like cycling, horse riding. So, woman will bleed during her first time having sex is is not certain thing. Clear your doubts read more here: https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/virginity/the-hymen-what-is-it https://lovematters.in/en/making-love/virginity/female-virginity-top-five-facts If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum