Dear Ekta, I am really sorry to hear you had to go through this. It must be really awful for you - I can just imagine. Beta Ekta, however you are one of those sort of lucky girls whose parents are so kind and understanding. You have said they support and protect you form the person, from the incident. Beta, sometimes our parents are also rather helpless - society and family shuts them up and they are the real helpless people here - not you. However maybe there are a few things you can do to try and better handle yourself and the deal with the past. So how about you avoid and ignore him completely, how about you walk up to him and look him in the eye and say, ""mujhse baat mat karna - kabhi bhi - bhaiyaa", how about you request your parents to not invite him/ welcome him in any get togethers you can avoid. You can do it now - or 5 or 10 or 20 years down the line - whenever you are ready - and never if you think he is so not worth it. Sometimes closure is achieved by just ignoring the person - making them look and seem invisible like they don't exist. Do it at your pace - your choice. Your hurband to be need not know anything - if you so wish it. About the virginity part, virginity is usually attributed to hymen. It might have been broken already or maybe not!! Hymens can be torn or stretched in lots of ways without having any kind of sex, like any Sports like cycling, horse riding. So, whether or not to tell your future partner is totally your call. Take care of yourself - and don't feel poorly at all. Its he who ought to be worried, not you. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” Ok beta Ekta? Chal phir, relax now.