Before we talk about the husband, first think about what do you want. Is it just the bf who wants to have sex? If yes, then why bother? Both partners should be equally willing for sex, no? So, first bete, please think about what YOU want rather than the boyfriend or husband. To answer your question, the only way one can make out or guess is if the hymen has broken, which can be for any reason actually. No one can know anyhow about your virginity unless you yourself don’t admit or tell them about it ok? So don’t worry. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum