Riya bete, you mention about his love and his want of having sex...what do you want? Where does your desire fit in all this? It is not only about your boyfriend and your future husband, but also you...the most important party, in this case, is you. Decide for you. All we can tell you is the only way one can make out or guess is if the hymen has broken, which can be for any reason actually. No one can know anyhow about your virginity unless you yourself don't admit or tell them about it ok? So don’t worry. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/faqs-hymen-and-virginity If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum