Puttar, The woman in question might not want him to touch her vagina because she may not want to have sex! Sex should never be done without consent. Well, whatever the reason - only the woman can tell. As for your views regarding virginity, we respect that. It’s your wish if you want your partner to have no sexual history. But we would still want to believe that it is impossible to test a woman’s virginity! Hymen is NOT a seal that seals the vagina. Iss there was indeed a SEAL - how would menstrual blood blow? It is just a layer of skin that covers the inside of a vagina. Some women may have a thick layer while others might have a thin. Yes, it does stretch when you have sex for the first time but it can also stretch in other ways when you do physical exercise and use tampons/menstrual cups etc. So, if a woman’s hymen stretched because of some reason, other than sex - in your opinion she is not a virgin! Think about it. Relationships - especially marriage, depend on trust. If there is no mutual trust, the person should not marry! Tum aunty pe trust nahi karte to doctor ki baat par to karoge - yeh dekh lo - https://www.instagram.com/p/CYUEW6VBasK/ If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum L