Bete aapke bhai aur mummy ko pata hai, aur shayad unki sahmati bhi hai, so, ek baar apne papa se baat kar ke dekhiye - unhe manane ki koshish kijiye - aap chahen aur yadi possible ho toh apne kisi bharosemand dost ya rishtedar ki madad lene ki koshish kijiye. Ek baar apni baat kahne ki himmat toh lani hogi. Aur jaha tak apna ghar ki baat hai toh yadi wo job mein hain toh koi pareshani ki baat nahi lagti hai. Sabse achchhi baat hai ki aap apne pariwar ki marzi se shadi karna chahti hain, toh ismein samasya nahi aayegi - try kijiye!! OK bete!! Aapko, hum sab ki ore se - best of luck. https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum