That is a very sad situation beta, but don’t worry. The thing is perhaps you need to ask him about what you likes and enjoys in sex… what is you missing and what you wants in sex. The other thing is your partner may want to check how comfortable you are.. how relaxed and are you have any fears around having sex. Also ensure you have no fear of infection or discomfort in and around your vagina, which could also be the problem. I hope this helps. https://lovematters.in/en/news/pain-during-sex-suffering-silence If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum