Akki bete first of all, please consult a registered doctor about your menstrual and hymen problem immediately. One more important thing is that your are 17 years old, and sex under 18 year is illegal -in the Rape category - it is a crime, an act of abuse and violence, whether it is with your willing or not, OK!! Read here: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/menstrual-cycle https://lovematters.in/hi/love-and-relationships/do-indian-men-not-understand-consent If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum