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Pornography

Pornography is pictures or videos of sex which are designed to turn you on.

'Soft porn' leaves something to the imagination. It might show a man and woman kissing, or a woman in sexy underwear. 'Hardcore porn' shows clear images of sex, for example a naked woman with her legs apart or a close-up of a man and woman having intercourse.

Porn isn't real

When you look at porn, you often see things most people don’t experience in real life. Sex involving several people, sex between strangers or blindfold sex - anything’s possible in porn.

But remember that sex in porn films is not like real-life sex. It’s like a fairytale for you to fantasise about. Don’t expect real sex to be the way it is in porn films.

What’s more, the actors in porn films usually have bigger muscles and penises than most men. And the actresses are much thinner and have bigger breasts than most women – and they’ve often had breast enlargements or other cosmetic surgery. And does your partner really moan as loudly as that – or come as easily?

Remember most porn is made for men, and only shows men’s fantasies. And in porn, no one wears a condom!

Pros and Cons of porn

  • Is it wrong to look at pornography? Well, you certainly won’t be alone if you do! In principle, there’s nothing wrong with being turned on by sexy films or pictures. It’s OK as long as you remember it’s not real life. But remember you’ve no way of knowing if the actresses were happy about taking part.
     
  • Be aware that porn on the internet often shows violence towards women, or women being degraded. And the women are only there to give pleasure to the men. You can fantasise about whatever you like, but there’s a big difference between fantasy and reality.
     
  • Porn can be addictive. It can even start to spoil real-life sex, because you find you start enjoying porn more than the real thing. And then you can start trying to make the real thing like porn, which isn’t going to work. If you find yourself wanting to watch more and more extreme kinds of porn, it’s time to stop.
Comments

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Shuru se third month tak aur phir saatvein mahene se le kar …. Is samy avoid keejiye. Jo wife ko pasansd ho who hee keejiye , jo doctor salaah de who bhi samjh leejiye. Aur dekho bête behtar hoga ki aap condom ka isltemal karein. Ya phir discharge andar NA hone dein. Iske ilava wife ki comfort ka poora dhyaan keejiye. http://lovematters.in/en/comment/13731#comment-13731

long time matlab? Kya dubara use ke liye? Hmm toh bete koi bhi achhe se achha condom ek use ke baad dubra use ke layak nahi hota, aur use dubara use karna bilkul nishedh hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/using-condoms

Suno bete! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareek ahai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti aur phir Yeh koi beemari thodi na hai- Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna, Lekin haan, sirf iske hee bare mein saara waqt sochna aapki baki ki zindingi se aapko door ya laaparvaah kar na de, isliye iske bare mein itna sochene ki bhi avashayakta nahin. So koi aur activities kar lo, movies – BF Nahin – dost- yaar, books, gym, exercise… enjoy karo aur relaxed raho. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Bete sex ke duran ling ke size se kahin jyada sex karne ka sahi tarika matter karta hai. Zara yeh padhiye: http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai? All the best

Pehle toh apne mann se yeh baat nikal dijiye ki yeh sab hastmethun ke karan ho rah ahai kyunki yeh ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Aur rahi baat ling mein tanav ki samaya ki toh kahin aap kisi tension, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karnay ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction

अर्रे भाई, लिंग को अपने आम स्थिति पे भी तो वापिस आना है ना? इसमे लगभग 45 मिनट्स से 1 घंटा लग सकता है! यह बहुत common है। So don't worry!

Ji nahi kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Bete isye swapandosh ya nightfall kehte hain jo ki bohot common hai yeh koi bimaari nahi jiska ilaaz mojjud , isye aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga, baaki aap yaha padh lo : https://lovematters.in/en/news/wet-dreams-top-five-facts

Yeh MAAHAN idea kahan se aaya aapko? Actually aap logon ko shayad lagta ho ki kyunki yeh sab cheezein porn filmon mein bahut common hai aur shayad aapki sister aapke aas paas hee hain, so un hee se kar leeya jaye!! Yeh vahiyaat idea apne mann se nikaal deejiye aur yeh jaan leejiye ki sirf ki yeh ek ghinoni harkat hai jo ki aapki sister ke poori zindigi pe asar kar saktee hai, saath hee apka rishta wbane nahin hain, yeh toh aap bhi jaantey hee hain!! Apna chintan swasth karo!!

हस्तमैथुन एक सेफ /सुरक्षित तरीका है अपनी संतुष्टि करने का. इससे कोई नुकसान या बीमारी नहीं होती. यदि चाहें तो बहुत सी activities हैं, जैसे की खेल – games, gym या कोई hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Bete Rahul yeh ek bohot badi mithya hai ki sperm bahar nikalne se garbhdharn nahi hota hai kyunk pregnant hone ke liye ek shukranu bhi bohot kaafi hota hai. Zara yeh padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/10-most-common-contraception-myths Aur haan Yadi aap bina kisi protection key ya bina surakhsha ke sex ki soch rahe hai toh shayad aap un dino ki baat kar rahe hain jin mein bachcha rukna mushkil hai. Yeh ho toh sakta hai lekin yeh poori terh se surakshit nahin mana jaata hai. Yadi aap pregnancy ke risk se bachna chatay hai to kisi aur tarikay kay mukabley Condom ka istemal hi easy aur safe tarika hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/safe-sex http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/fertility

हस्तमैथुन एक सेफ /सुरक्षित तरीका है अपनी संतुष्टि करने का. इससे कोई नुकसान या बीमारी नहीं होती. यदि चाहें तो बहुत सी activities हैं, जैसे की खेल – games, gym या कोई hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating

Hmm! aisa kyun ho raha hai? kya aap koi aisi activity kar rahe hain jo ki unhe pasand nahi aa rahi hai? Sabse zaroori hoga ki aap unse pyar aur vishawas ke saath iski vajeh poochein, bina jhagda, bina aalochna. Tab hee aap anumaan laga saktey hain, hain na? Yeh bhi yaad rakhiye, ki sex mein HAAN karna ya NAA, yeh bhi unka haq hai, unka nirnay… so yadi who Na kartee hain, so ek baat to tay hi ki koi bhi zor ya zabardasti bilkul allow nahin ha, samjhe beta jee?! https://lovematters.in/en/news/my-wife-not-interested-sex zara yeh bhi padhiye : http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/making-love https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed

Ummm! Woh kya chhati hain yeh toh hamein nahi pata. Lekin aap kya chahte hain? Zara yeh socho aap ki apke mann mein jo chal raha hai woh sab jaankar yadi woh mahila aapki complaint police mein kar day ya aapki pitai shuru kar de toh isse apka career apki life par kya prabhav padea? so zara bete apna chintan swasth kijiye aur yeh baat apne mann se bilkul nikal dijiye ki mahila kewal sex ki vastu hai. apne aas pass ki mahilao ko respect dena shuru kijiye jese aap apni ghar ki mahilao ko dete hain.http://lovematters.in/hi/news/should-i-try-sex-older- woman
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