Been through an abusive relationship similar to urs....Wasted an year of my life.... This feeling of no hav to make it work is somethin which is an alarm for a girl.... Lesson learnt when our parents dont feel good about the guy or even people around dont accept the person.... Consider there perspective and think with evry1's perspective because then there is something seriously wrong in the relationship and that other person..... That will surely help in making decission. We should be glad that the other person saved our life by ditching us and teaching us a lesson of lifetime... You will understand this better when u will get a guy all oppositive to what he was... And how much you will be able cherry your next relationship bec of sour one....All the very best for future...... :)