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Female orgasms: Everything you want to know!

When a woman has an orgasm, or climax, the muscles of the pelvic floor, around the vagina and anus, squeeze together rhythmically, tensing and relaxing.

Sometimes the womb also contracts and relaxes. This all gives an intensely pleasurable feeling in the pubic area. Some women feel it right through their bodies. It can make your whole body jerk.

More than one orgasm

Women can have more than one orgasm in a row, not long after each other. This is because within 10 to 15 seconds of having an orgasm, the clitoris returns to its normal size. It’s then ready for stimulation again. Men need a longer period to recover after they ejaculate.

Some women squirt out liquid when they have an orgasm. It’s not urine, but vaginal fluid.

How can a woman have an orgasm?

Stimulate the clitoris, for example by rubbing with a finger or licking. For most women, just having intercourse isn’t enough to make them have an orgasm. This is because the vagina is relatively insensitive and the clitoris often isn’t stimulated enough just by the penis going in and out of the vagina. See also fingering and oral sex

G-Spot

Some women have a G-spot. It’s an area the size of a coin, three to five centimetres inside the vagina, on the front wall. For some women it doesn’t give any special feeling, but for others it’s particularly sensitive. It can be stimulated by fingering or in some positions during intercourse.

Keeping in step

Do you find that your partner comes more quickly than you do? That’s perfectly normal. Among heterosexual couples, most men reach orgasm more quickly and easily than women do. A couple of tips to help keep in step with each other:

  • Take time to build up your lovemaking. And make clear to your partner what you like.
  • Try to let go and just enjoy them touching you. You don’t always have to concentrate on them. They also find it really arousing to see you enjoying their caresses.

Sensitive spots

Actually your whole body can give you pleasure. But certain areas feel particularly nice when they’re touched. For women it’s the vulva and vagina, and certainly the clitoris. But your neck, arms, breasts and buttocks are also sensitive.

Breasts and sex


Breasts, especially the nipples, are sensitive to the touch and can grow harder and larger when you’re aroused. The areola, the area around the nipple, swells up and turns darker in colour, and the skin goes bumpy. Many women like having their breasts and nipples touched during lovemaking. Your partner can use fingers, lips, tongue, or even teeth. When your breasts are touched you often feel it in your vagina, which gets moist. It can be particularly nice if your breasts and vulva are touched at the same time.

Simultaneous orgasms

Did you both have an orgasm at the same time? You’ve been lucky! Usually it’s not so easy to have a simultaneous orgasm. When you come, you’re usually thinking about yourself and not your partner. Don’t put too much pressure on it.

If you manage to come at the same time it’s nice, but it’s also exciting to come one after the other. You can pay more attention to your partner and enjoy seeing him or her having an orgasm.

Afterplay

It’s nice to enjoy cuddling, caressing and talking after making love. In particular many women find afterplay important.

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Hey I´ve never had an orgasm, but already had sex with different boys and now I have a boyfriend. I like what he does, but every time I can´t reach the orgasm. Are there any other tips or am I just too cramped..? Thanks for your advice:)
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Bete ek achhe sex ke liye zaruri hai ki sex mein woh activities ki jayein jisse dono hee partners ko ananad mile. Isliye apni partner ki body ko samjh lijiye- usko time dijiye. partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Yeh links bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed   https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-orgasms   Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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Hello ma'am, Ma'am Maine meri abhi abhi Sadi Hui hai kuch 2 month main jitni br bhi sex Kiya hai ek bhi br wife ko orgasm ni aya Maine bhut kosis ki ki usko orgasm ho lekin hota hi ni, clitoris ko touch krne PR usko jhatke se lgte hai aur hath hata deti hai fir mai bhi ni krta kuch,finger se bhi kiya oral bhi kiya orgasm hua hi ni kya kru? Is br to main bhi jldi gir gya tha.
Bete ek achhe sex ke liye zaruri hai ki sex mein woh activities ki jayein jisse dono hee partners ko ananad mile. Isliye apni partner ki body ko samajh lijiye- usko time dijiye. partner par focus badhana, foreplay, yaani ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activities sabse zaroori hain. Yeh links bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/how-can-i-please-my-wife-bed https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/her-orgasms Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
mai apne bhai ke saath sex karna chahti hun meri age 16 yrs hai aur uski 13 use sex ke bare me sab pata hai aur jab mai naha kar bikini me atii hun tb uska lund khada ho jata hai.
LM ki nazar mein, kuch rishtey sex ke liye nahin bane hain, un mein se ek bhai aur bahan ka hai. Wasie bhi bahi/bahan, maa/ pita aur bete/ beti ke beech ka rishta kisi bhi samuday mein maananeey nahin. Kyunki yeh idea ki family ka koi vyakti sex ke liye ready ho sakta hai is me ek satta hai ek power ki jhalak jo ki kisi bhi soorat mein niyamit nahin hai!! Yeh bhee padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/i-am-attracted-my-sister Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Mam ji m ek sadi suda hu or m wife ke sath sex karta hu to usme koi problem nahi hoti h ling me kadak pan bhi kubhh rahta h oe sex bhi achhe se kar leta hu but jab bhi kisi dusri ladki ke sath sex karta hu to ling achhe se khada nahi hota h or under dalta hu or 3-4 jhatko me hi nikal jata h to plz kuchh bataye jisse dusri ladkiyon ke sath bhi sahi se sex kar saku

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