Dear Neethu, it's not about him, it's about you. If you aren't comfortable doing it, you are under no obligation to say yes. Don't get into the 'right-wrong' scenario. Do you want it? If not, tell your fiance in a loving manner and help him understand. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/how-say-no We would also suggest you to evaluate your relationship. He might take care of you but if he doesn't understand 'no' then probably it's a red flag. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask” https://lovematters.in/en/forum