I have a bf and I am no more a virgin..there are like 50% chances of us getting married. If in case we do not get married I don't want my husband to know about me not being virgin. The bleeding or no bleeding concept of not defining virginity i get completely but what about the pain that occurs during breaking of hymen ? I can justify no bleeding concept but how to justify no pain concept ? He might wonder why so easy entry ? Will he doubt me?