First thanks for writing and sharing your dilemma. very often we get confused and we mistake proximity with passion and love for affection. We are so physically close to our siblings that they become our ‘mates’ and unknowingly we become so close that we think this is love. Also, because cousins and siblings are very often the first “brush” of an adult person which again we mistake or mix up with passion, because they are close, and we are so comfortable with them, we can feel sexually attracted to them Beta, these are very touchy and delicate issues and frankly said some relationships are better off without sex, siblings and family members are such. Would you like to risk a life time of closeness, friendship and love- of a different kind no doubt- for the sake of a sexual move, which may jeopardize your present and future relationship, in fact not just yours but may well be others in the family too? I am sure you will come to a sound decision. Why don’t you take a short break or a holiday for a few days, far from your family…sister. Relax and stay well.

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