Abdullah – so you both are engaged just now, and it seems as if you both live far from each other, yes? Ok so your see Abdullah, she is still very young. She perhaps has no clues about sex and sex talk , which is why perhaps she got so nervous!! That’s understandable is it not? You see, perhaps you could have first checked with her about her feelings on this issue and then apporched the sex talk… Ok now that she is back, and is asking for your dosti and friendship, this is really a golden opportunity for BOTH of you to get close and friendly with each other. You can use this time to talk and get to know each other so that when you do get married, you are very comfy with each other, very relaxed with each other. This is a time for love and romance, enjoy it!! All the best!!