All right! So listen. Relax. Whats the issue, things will happen as and when they do. In the meanwhile meet new people, go out, have fun. Join a social space such as a gym or a hobby or better a sport- you will meet all kinds of folks and that will surely give you a new zest in life. As ofr paid sex, that is never the solution to anything beta- its just time pass. And its making you unhappy…so why do it? Try what I say and see, you may still not get a partner but you will find a new hobby a new interest and thats what you need. Just relax my dear, life has only just begun.