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All about penis sizes and shapes

Does size matter? Well, when it comes to penis, not really! It's all in your mind. Most often, men assume that the length of their penis is directly proportional to the pleasure of a female. But female pleasure does not solely depend on the length of the penis. There are a number of ways to pleasure a woman!

Normal size of penis?

So is there a normal size of a penis? The simple answer is no. All men have various shapes and sizes. Most Penises come in varies shapes and sizes. And they all look different: straight, curved, long, thick, thin, circumcised, uncircumcised. One is no better than the other. Your penis usually hangs to one particular side inside your pants.

When soft, a penis is usually between 6 and 13 centimetres long. An erect one is usually somewhere between 7 and 17 centimetres long. The average is about 12 centimetres. Smaller penises grow more in size when they become erect compared to large penises. Check more details about penis in this article. 

If you want to measure your penis, do it when it’s erect, on the top side – the side closest to your belly.

Some boys joke a lot about the size of their penis or other people's penises. It’s often because they feel insecure, or because they want to look tough, or they want to make up for lack of knowledge. 

Also read

Penis: top five facts

Penis sizes: No rocket science!

Here’s a short, animated video about penis shapes and sizes. It busts some harmful myths and unravels some important facts.

Does size really matter? 

If you have a bigger penis, it doesn’t make you a better lover, and it doesn’t mean you’ll have better sex. To have better sex, you need to know your partner's body, their likes, dislikes, pleasure points and much more. In fact, you can enjoy sex without penetration too. Don't believe us? Read here

Girls or women find foreplay, affection and relationship satisfaction as important as their partner’s penis size. 

 

Also read

Penis size: what women want

Does penis size matter?

Does a woman's orgasm really depend on penis size?

Do condoms have different sizes too then?

Yes, condoms too come in various sizes ( and flavours!). When you buy condoms, it’s important to find ones that fit you. Most condoms are made to fit average erect penis sizes (4.7-5.9 inches / 12-17cm). 

Since most condoms are made for the average penis, here are some examples of smaller condoms and larger condoms.

Also read

Condom too tight - maybe you're too big?

How to wear condoms - do's and don'ts

Do people from some ethnic groups have bigger penises than others?

There is no conclusive evidence to prove that certain ethnic groups have larger penises than others.

However, some organisations such World Health Organization’s have reported slight ethnic differences in average erect penis size that men of:

  • African descent have slightly longer and wider penises
  • European descent have medium-sized penises
  • Asian descent have slightly narrower and shorter penises

Also check below links about Indian penis size

Indian penis size: the inside story

Putting penis size on the map

Is the length of someone’s penis same as the size of his hands or feet?

No. There is no relationship between having a bigger shoe size or larger hands and having a larger penis. However, a South Korean research has shown that the longer a man's ring finger is compared to his index finger, the longer his penis.

Can you increase the penis size?

Simple answer is no. You cannot increase the size of the penis. There are no non-surgical techniques that can permanently make a penis bigger. Please do no believe in false advertisements that claim that a pill can increase the size of a penis. Do not fall prey to such ads and do no take any such pills on your own - they can be detrimental to your health. 

Other penis enlargement products like pills, weights, and stretching devices don’t usually work in the long term. At worst they can be very dangerous to your health.

Also check out articles on penis enlargement below: 

Penis enlargement methods don't work

Six myths on how to increase penis size

Micropenis - what is it?

A micropenis is a penis that measure less than 2.75 inches/ 7cm in length when erect. It happens if the level of the male hormone testosterone is too low when the baby is developing in the womb. Most men who are worried they have a micropenis and who see a doctor don’t actually have the condition.

Most often, it’s that the penis looks smaller than it really is because it’s hidden by fat around the genitals. In other cases, if a boy has not reached puberty just yet, his penis may appear smaller compared to his body size. This is not something to worry about, because once puberty starts, the penis will also grow in length and width.

Read more about small penis on links below: 

Small penis: it's all in the mind

Penis too small? Probably not

A small penis is usually all in the mind. Read more. Want to know about normal penis size? 

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Beta essa hona bohot common aur normal hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Oral sex karne mein koi samsya nahi hai, agar saaf-safai ka poora dhyan rakha gaya ho! Aur isme dono partners ki barabar marzi shaamil ho toh. Aur behtar hoga yadi condom ka istemaal kiya jae, aur zyada yaha padh lijiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/news/oral-sex-dos-and-donts-0 Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Aaap khud ye nirney lein ki aapka ling chota hai ya patla yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bitao. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Me 18 saal ka hu or me 13 saal se myth mr rha hu ab me muth nhi mrna chahta hu uske liye me kiya kru plz mujhe btaiye ki me kiya kru plz
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apne aap ko santusht karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities mein samay bitta sakte hai, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies, ok? https://lovematters.in/en/resource/puberty-boys Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Relax beta! Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Aunty jii...m 2o saal ka hu mera sex krne ka bht dil krta h bt koi h nai jiske sth kr sku to m isi wjh se hastmathun krta hu iski wjh se mjHe bHt kmjori feel ho rhi h or kBi kBi to chhakr b aajate h or bHt ghabraht feel hoti h smjh nai aa rha mjhe kya kru ...pllzzz mjhe ans. De meri email
Bete Akshay apne jawab ke liye toh aapko wapis yahi aana hoga acha suniye ! Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
vikas vikram
Mon, 08/31/2015 - 00:41
mera penis 4" ka h mai use 7"ka karna chhata hu.aur motai b kam h aur veriye patla aata h aur kam aata h .plz bataye mai kya kru
Bete Vikas ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Bete virya ka gadha-mota hone se koi sambandh nahi hai zara yeh padho: http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/ejaculation https://lovematters.in/en/news/watery-semen-dont-blame-masturbation Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Anonymous
Tue, 09/01/2015 - 17:57
Aunty g mujhe hastmathun krne Ki bht adat hai ..par ab mera lund jaldi khada Nahi hota ..or jab mai sex krta Hun andar dalne ke baad fir dhila ho jata hai ..mujhe Koi upaye btaye mai bht preshan Hun....
Dekho bête yeh baat bohot achhe se samjh lo aap ki sex karnye ke lieye dono hi partners ko tanavmukat hona zaruri hai! Aur dono ka tyyar hona mentally, physically, emotionally bhi bohot zarurui hai, aap samjh rahe hain na mera matlab? kahin aap kisi tention, pressure mein toh nahi hain na? yeh samjh lijiey ki sex karne ke liey bilkul tanav mukt hona zaruri hai bête : Jis baaray mein aur yaha padh lo : http://lovematters.in/hi/news/4-signs-you-have-erectile-dysfunction Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain toh hamare disccsion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil hon! https://lovematters.in/en/forum
Bete are you talking about foreskin ! So listen foreskin ought to easy to pull back softly while bathing for cleaning, But if it is bleeding and you facing problem in pulling it back consult to a doctor. Also this could well be a cleanliness issue. See a doctor. Take care! http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis
Beta jaldi hone se koi baat nahin, dont worry. So sabse pehle toh apni partner ki body ko samjh lo- usko time de do. Aur yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
hello madam, mera penis 15 cm ka ha. problem ya ha ke sex timing bahoot kam ha. please give me advice.
Bete yadi shareer menin uttejna adhik hogi, sex ki bhavna zyada hogi toh sheeghr patan hone ki sambhavna bhi adhik hee hogee. aisee stithi mein, partner par focus badhana, foreplay , yaani bête ki pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaein karna , jinse dono ko aanand mile, apne partner kee uttejna badhana, yeh sab activitys sabse zaroori hain. iske ilava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle, ek baar hast maithun kar saktey hain, utne samay pehele jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Condom ka istemaal bhi jaldi discharge mein help karta hai. http://lovematters.in/hi/news/premature-ejaculation-top-five-facts
Beta aisa hona bohot hi common hai par hum aapki ismein koi sahayata nahi kar sakte! Lekin aap hastmethun try kar sakte hai kyunki Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating Aur yaad rakhiye mahila koi sex ki vastu nahi hoti. Kisi bhi sexual activity mein dono partners ki marzi hona bahot zaruri hai. Isme zabardasti ki koi bhi jagha nahi hai. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
ello, my girlfriend told that I have a nice penis, but she wants a little more bigger size....so how I can increase the size? pls reply. thank u
Iss skin ko nahate samay halka sa piche kar ke saaf karna hota hai jisse ki waha safai bani rahe, yadi essa karne mein koi jyada takleef ya blood aa raha hai toh ek doctor se mil lo iske baare mein. Aur jyada yaha padhiye: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
aunty ji meri aaddat bachpan me hi bbigad gyi hi m karib 13 saal ka tha tabse hastmaithun kar rha hu or ab meri age 23 yr ki ho gyi h or ab mera ling pehle ki traah tight ni rehta or chhota bhi reh gya ab m sex krna chahu to mera ling tight ni hota jisse m use ander daal paau to iska kya upaay h aunty ji pls tell me...
Hastmaithun ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apne aap ko santusht karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahi hoti. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/women-masturbating Iska ling ke size ya fir dheele pan se koi sambandh nahi hai.Aisee stithi mein partner par focus badhaye yani ki foreplay; pravesh karne se pehle bahut se alag alag kriyaien karna jo aap niche diye gaye link par jaake padh sakte hai, apne partner kee uttejna badhane ke liye, yeh sab activities karna sabse zaroori hain. Iske elava, partner ke saath sex karne se pehle ek baar hastmaithun kar sakte hai, utne samay pehle jitne mein ling mein tanaav aa jaaye. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Aaap khud ye nirney lein ki aapka ling chota hai ya patla yeh itna uchit nahi hoga. Ling ka size badhane ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bitao. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Ling ko apni aam stithi pe bhi to waapis aana hai na? Isme lagbhag 45 mins se 1 hour lag sakta hai, ya zyada ya kum. Yeh bohot common hain, so don't worry! Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Hmmm! Chutkara paane ka ek hee tareeka hai- apne aap yeh karna rok lo... iski koi dawa nahin. Lekin haan hastmaithun apne aap mein koi problem nahin karta yadi chodna hee hai toh iske baare mein sochna band karo... Lekin jaise kaha, aadat choot jaye toh theek , na ruke , toh bhi koi baat nahin. Yeh ek safe /surakshit tareeka hai apni santushti karne ka. Isse koi nuksaan ya beemari nahin hoti. Yadi chahein toh bahut see activities hain, jaise ki khel – games, gym ya koi hobbies…ok? http://lovematters.in/hi/resource/men-masturbating
Mera ling 4 inch ka h kya mai apne life partaner ko santuste kar sakta hu ke nahi meri saadi hone vali mujhe bahut dar lga rahta he pleese mujhe bataiye me kya karu pleese pleese
Bete Avinash! Relax Ling ka size bada karnay ka koi bhi tarika mojjud nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil karo aap : http://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur Please size par mat jao, apna andaaz achcha karo- unke saath timing bitho theek hai.All the best
Hallo sir mera land bahut chota huva he khaada to hota he mager ek bar sex kiya to next karneko jata hu to jhaldi khada hota nahi kay upay he
Ling ke size mein apna ek tedhapan hona bohot hi common baat hai. So don’t worry beta. https://lovematters.in/en/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizesc Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
Ling ka size badhane ka aur chota karne ka koi bhi tarika mojjood nahi hai. Ling ke size ki sahi jaankari yaha se hasil kar sakte hai aap: https://lovematters.in/hi/resource/penis-shapes-and-sizes Aur please size par mat jao apna andaaz acha karo unke saath time bitao. Aap iss baare mein humse vristaar mein charcha humare discussion board "just poocho" par humse kar sakte hai. https://lovematters.in/hi/forum
sapna soni
Tue, 10/06/2015 - 22:35
Madam my pussey's colour is very dark. Before pregnency it was ok but after two pregnency it's colour is so dark. I want to get same colour of my vagina like before pregnency. Is it possible...? Is there any products to fair vagina. Please tell me madam.
Bete Sapna relax! The skin of labia is very thin and elastic, making it look darker. Trying to lighten your naturally dark skin with fairness creams can cause unnecessary irritation. So try to ignore the commercials telling you that fairer is better and embrace your natural colour be vagina confident. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, "Just Ask" . https://lovematters.in/en/forum
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