Hmm. Ok fine. So first find out of she is nervous or afraid or scared of something like this? Address these concerns. Sometimes women get very nervous of sex and may contract their muscles which can casue pain. Apart from all this, she may still have a small medical condition for which you must see a doc. Is that ok beta? Don’t be nevous and be very patient. Whatever you do now in sex, will be a part of your relationship for ever. Make it beautiful Bas.