Amita: have you heard the phrase throwing good after bad? if you have had a bad experience once - would you like to learn from it and make it better or would you like to drag it along with you for life - like dead weight!! That's crazy, dear beta. What's gone is gone. Now love and embrace what you have. Enjoy each minute each moment. Jeena isee ka naam hai. By constantly recalling that person - don't you feel you are diminishing your current BF who actually is a really very nice guy? Who has more value then? This ex guy or your present guy - say? Please get over that fellow and the experience and enjoy a beautiful relationship with this guy who both loves and trusts you so much. Ek date ho jaye, beta? Go for it and be happy and relaxed. If you would like to join in on a further discussion on this topic, join our discussion board, ‘Just Ask’ https://lovematters.in/en/forum