I am in a relationship now. Been married for 42 years and my husband passed. I never thought I would find love again and I have. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and I live with him. It's like we have been married forever. I love him but he hasn't told me yet but shows it in his little ways. He was married for 52 years. His late wife passed and he had been alone for 2 years before he meet me. I hear that men need to be with someone sooner than women. I love him so much but I question sometimes he being faithful to me. He is a very nice person to everyone and he loves blondes. He likes to watch people he says but he does look at other women. it makes me feels bad because I get afraid he doesn't like me. He loves sex! But on the other hand takes sublimates to have it but I'm okay with that. It seems since I've reached my age I like sex more than when I was younger. Sometimes I fell secure with the relationship and sometimes I don't. He likes his time. I like being with him ALL THE TIME! I guess what I am saying is that the relationship with Gary and I does work. I am 68 and he is 78. He said that when he first saw me he would be with me. Out first date was lunch and a movie. He did kiss me on the first date. I could go on but he is more secure than me in the relationship. some days I am and some days I'm not. This is all new to me. I have not debt! I hav3e more money than he does but he has never asked money from me. He is a gentleman. Kind to everyone.