Oh bete, sunkar bahut dukh hua! Aap unhe samjhaeeye ki shadi karne ke baad bahut sari jimmedari uthani hoti hai, jiske liye pahle financial settle hona bahut zaruri hota hai - aur aap jab tak poori tarah se settle nahi hote chahe maansik taur par ya financial taur par tab tak jimmedari uthana possible nahi hoga!! OK!! Aur saath hi Please koi bhi kadam uthane se pehle - jis mein caste, dharam, age, parents ka virodh jaisee stithi saamne aa rahee ho- apni family aur apne lawyer / vakeel/ local police thaane, aas-paas koi NGO se apne haq aur adhikaron ke baare mein poori jaankari lein. Yadi koi kadam uthate hain - to uske kya parinaam ho sakte hain - sab pooch leejiye aur aapko aur family ko kiss-kiss stithi ke liye taiyyar rehna hai - uski poori knowledge le leejiye. Aapko, hum sab ki ore se - best of luck. https://lovematters.in/hi/marriage/thinking-about-marriage/love-marriages Yadi aap is mudde par humse aur gehri charcha mein judna chahte hain to hamare discussion board “Just Poocho” mein zaroor shamil ho! https://lovematters.in/en/forum